so this guy in my gym class stares at my legs every time I walk by, I even heard him tell his friends. what I want to know is he making fun of me? I am a runner and my legs are NOT little at all.which makes me wonder.. I just don't know what to make of the whole situation. help?
Co-ed gym class, eh? Not when I was in school. :-(
First, guys rarely waste their time looking at something they don't like. I mean 99.44% of the time, a guy who likes nothing but tall blondes isn't going to sit there staring at short brunettes because of some weird desire to make fun of them.
Guys tastes in women vary as much as women vary in appearance and shape. For instance, I rarely give a woman a second glance if she's *under* 150lbs. I like 'em downright thick, real chubby, and strong! (My wife can leg press 500lbs!) So to me, curvy, thick, strong legs - especially thighs - on a woman is *very* attractive.
So what was he saying to his friends when you overheard him? That seems to me a really important detail to miss from your question.
Next time you catch him staring at your gorgeous gams, ask him outright if he sees something he likes! Put it point blank if he's not with a pile of his buddies: "You like these legs?" If he's with a bunch of friends, be more careful. Male ego is delicate at that age, as is this stupid desire to pick a girl that one's buddies will approve of, regardless of one's own tastes.
Only thing to be careful of is the off chance that he suddenly starts thinking there's a chance to "hit it and quit it". That wouldn't be cool.
Personally, there was this girl with thick calves and thighs that liked me but I was turned off by that...mind, she was also very short (like 4'11" or something)...if you are taller, like over 5'2" then I think thick is not so bad, but if you are short, then thick is a big NO-NO.
I've been there before! One time this guy was dying too hookup with me admitted that my legs were amazing. I also have very naturally muscular legs and my quads even stick out when I walk or run. Just embrace it. Don't feel embarassed. Be proud you have strong legs.
Trust me there are "leg" guys out there just like there are "boob" guys lol.
It depends if your legs are freakishly muscular or toned. Mine are really really toned, I guess they're still at the "nice legs" level. If I worked out more they could be scary. I'm not sure what yours look like, but he probably likes them. Men love legs.