Knowing he's single and missing him, I sent him a light, playful text: "Where is your crazy butt?" It was move-in day today, so I assumed he'd be in town and I wanted to see if he was coming to the concert. He texted me back, "Hey girl I'm in *insert hometown* How is everything?" I said, "Boo! You're missing out! Lol." I sent him a video of the T-Pain concert with the message. He goes, "Damn that looked fun."
My thing is... maybe I just read everything (that I couldn't include here) wrong over the course of our friendship and he never felt the same? Calling me "girl" and "friend" seems distant and like a boundary. My guy friends said he was sending so many signals when he came over after dumping his ex, but I wouldn't throw him a bone. But, how can I throw a bone to someone who sends mixed signals?