Search Results: is being skinny usually less attractive

Most of the time I see skinny women being called shallow, because they only want to date guys who are in shape. This is completely false in my experience as a skinny guy. Lots of skinny girls are attracted to me. In fact, 99% of all girls who were attracted to me were skinny. This brings me to the conclusion that skinny girls are less shallow than curvier girls. Pretty strange considering that thin women are usually thought as more attractive compared to curvy women.

Which gender is pressured more to be fit?
In my opinion, guys are under more pressure to be in athletic shape. Fit guys have much more value on the dating market than guys who are not as fit. As a slightly fit guy on the thinner side, I can definitely say dating is much better for me now that I am fitter compared to when I was skinny. Although I agree that being fit solely won't make you attractive, you need to have the whole package.

But when it comes to girls, usually the most attractive ones are not fit at all because they can still get the hottest guys. In my experience most athletic guys usually date girls who have either slim or curvy body type depending on their personal preference, but not athletic. Lots of fit girls who I know don't get guys because they lack something else. I myself rejected girls who were much fitter than me and went for less fit ones.

Of course, girls have different preferences too: those fit girls who liked me when I was skinny and not as fit as them is a good example. So what do you think about this?