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my aunt said the best looking guy she ever met was her neighbor. a tree fell after a storm. she was staring at it looking at how she could get it cleaned up, because her husband (they were in early 20s) was a "busy" student at a party school. the guy came up behind her and asked "can i help with that?" in a deep voice. it spooked her. she said she had to collect herself and calm down when she saw the voice marched the face. a tall, tanned, blue eyed, muscle bound but sharp looking blue collar worker in appropriate attire. they STILL know each other and flirt to this day. she says it's because they never eventually dated. the suspense is still in the air 30 years later.

First verse
Please, dude, let me in! (But, baby, you're dead inside!)

Don't send me to the inn! (But, baby, you're dead inside!)

This evening has been... (Been frightful, but who turned you?)

So very mean! (I'll deadbolt the basement door, right?)

My mother won't recognize me! (I'm surprised that I do!)

My father would shoot me at the door! (Can't say I'd blame him!)

So, really, I'm really worried! (How you not buried?)

The National Guard might do more! (Why should that be my chore?)

The neighbors might think... (Babe, you're a walking corpse!)

That their brains I would drink! (Fair enough for the Marine Corps!)

I wish I knew how... (Please, who did this to you?)

To find a cure! (Me too; you're scaring me now!)

I'm eager for some brains... No, no, no, stop! (What I was afraid of!)

Wish I recalled the moment I died! (Wish I knew how you're half-alive!)

Chorus
Got nowhere to stay! (Oh, baby, don't guilt me!)

Baby, you're dead inside!

Second verse
I really need in! (But, baby, you're dead inside!)

Can't let the Feds win! (But, you're dead inside!)

This world out here's been; (Bet it's a hellscape now!)

So mean and cold! (Still don't wanna attract a swarm!)

My sister is malicious! (Is she infected, vicious?)

My brother will be launching grenades! (And lobbing at my house in spades!)

The tanks might roll up soon, me dusting! (Or they'll turn to bunker-busting!)

Can hardly wait for a second more! (Never housed a zombie before!)

Can never go home! (But, baby, you're dead out there!)

Don't leave me shambling to roam! (They'd have no mercy out there!)

I'll try to be bland! (All right, but don't you dare scratch up my hand!)

I'm tame right now, see? (Must fetch you brains from the cemetery!)

There's bound to be raids tomorrow! (Where's a machine gun to borrow?)

They want to see the neighborhood fried! (That honey, is 'cause you un-died!)

Trail
Nowhere else to stay!

(The troops; they're a-comin'!)

Face it, you're dead!

Baby, you're dead inside!

In general I notice women tend to casually throw “oh he’s my friend” or “we’re friends” more quickly and easily then men do in similar social interactions. Guys usually are much more careful on who we become real friends with vs. just being friendly. There is a difference.

The acid test is this. Could you give the keys to your house and trust this person to go into your room when you’re away? I could trust a friend but not someone I’m just “friendly” with. Also how far would you go out of your way to help this person.

You can be “friendly” with the following types of people but real friends:

- an ex boyfriend/girlfriend.
- a neighbor (in most circumstances)
- an authority figure
- someone who’s attracted to you but you don’t feel the same about them (or vice versa)
- an acquaintance you just met.

Why is that women particularly young women are so quick to throw out “we’re friends” label when they have not yet built up real trust and/or loyalty to the other person? When men hear another man say this it’s confirmation some real trust/respect is established between each other. But women will throw this out without really being at that point yet.