Do you believe in 'love' at first sight?

[Bricealan]

We had questions and opinions about 'freedom' (from GAG admin) and also questions about what we were doing for the 4th. I replied that I was going next door to spend the day with the neighbors and their friends and relatives.

Well, I met a 'single mother' there, and immediately was 'in love' as soon as I saw her, and she seemed to be attracted to me also. She had the most beautiful eyes, and hair and had a great figure, and was very physical in some of the games we played, and we kicked every bodies playing 'corn hole'. When the night was over, I hugged her like I had known her for ever and she returned the hug in the same way. I felt like a 'school boy" to be very honest.

I have not had that kind of attraction, and feeling for many moons.

Has anybody else had that kind of 'instant' attraction to someone and had it develop later?

The down side is that she live a long way away... Salt Lake City Utah, and I am in California. .

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She is leaving for home today and I asked to take her to the airport.

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I was a little 'over the top' in my comments, and of course, I don't believe in Love at first sight, per se, as it really is just infatuation physical attraction, BUT IT IS NICE.

[Jazzy54]

That’s so nice! Did you exchange numbers? Anyway, to answer your question, no, I don’t. To love someone, you have to know him or her.

[LazerBean]

Not at all, but I believe someone can trigger your hormones at first sight.

[inhua]

there's lust at first sight which many women confuse for love whenever they see a hot man. most men recognize they are just horny when she see a hot woman

[Bricealan]

@inhua I know what you mean, and I do understand the phenomena. I have had this happen a few times and I KNOW that you probably have experienced it too, and it is really a great feeling when the feeling is mutual isn't it? It may only be 'lust' but the feeling is really 'electric'.

[NuitBlanche]

I think that exists for some people, but not for me

[NuitBlanche]

In Germany, we have so much more words to say what you feel than in Amerika.

Ich mag dich
Ich bin verliebt
Ich habe dich sehr gerne
Ich liebe dich
...

Not only "Like" or "Love".

So we can more differentiate.

That is a little bit difficult in English. I love to play with words and in Germany I am very eloquent. To say that you like one man more than you like a good friend but Not to Love him but it goes that direction

[Bricealan]

I really appreciate your perspective on this, and it was nice to hear it. Thank you!!!

[NuitBlanche]

With pleasure

[Akam93]

Not really. I may be in love but the man isn't.

[Pink2000]

No I don’t

[zebronics]

Not really