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We wanted to make a baby before we were dating. Okay, maybe this is a little crazy, but before me and Raine were dating, we talked about having a baby. I can talk more on that in the updates if you guys and gals want, but right now I want to talk/ask about motivations.

1. Loneliness

One big motivation for wanting a baby is to have someone you can love, who NEEDS your love, who can't survive without it. Many people want a baby because they want to have that sense of purpose, which leads to my next point.

2. Hope

We all want the world to be a better place, right? We all want our children or nieces/nephews etc to have a good life, a better life than we did. Some of us see hope that the world will become a better place, or that our children can make the world a better place.

3. Instinctual Reproduction

This is pretty straight forward. We have a built-in biological clock that tells us we must reproduce for the survival of our race.

5. Family

Also pretty straight forward. Many of us would love to settle down and make a family. We want to grow old surrounded by loved ones, knowing that we built a family full of love.

5. Intimacy

There's something special about making a child with someone. I'm a romantic, previously a skeptic. I believe that there is a special bond made when a couple trusts and/or loves each other enough to go raw and finish inside. Idt it's a fetish thing or a weird thing, I just think that's how the chemicals in our bodies work. There's something about it that brings you closer, and ESPECIALLY if it's for the purpose of procreation.

Been dating a girl since late September, and last week she lets is spill that she is seeing/texting other guys while dating me. She states that she is 30 years old, and says something about her biological clock. So she is dating a couple guys at once, but I didn't ask how many. She says that right now I am by far the best man by miles compared to the other men, and she has only kissed me, and no other guy. Is this normal? I only ask because I am a doctor that recently graduated from residency, and spent the last 12 years under a rock in the dating scene.

So is this normal for women to do this? I don't feel like it is normal, or acceptable to me? Do I have the right to be upset? She sounds like she is just looking for the next best thing. I am right?