How can become a high value woman a 23?

[Anonymous]

So to begin with is that I met this guy who ended up living the high life when he dumped me after finding out I had a past of sexting other guys and hated the fact I wouldn't lose my virginity with him because I felt uncomfortable. I know, I am a virgin that has sexted guys, weird right? So the other day I saw his profile and he is just living it up while I'm here struggling while still living at home with my parents. I can clean but can't cook and am broke as shit right now due to the fact that I graduated from accounting last year in college with a 2.8 average all because my parents forced me into accounting when I wanted to enter into animation and only found out the other day I could have compromised with my parents if I took computer science which I can't now since my parents chose all my courses in high school since it's their way or no way. Anyways, knowing I'm not a numbers person, I somehow managed to graduate college in accounting and then for the rest of the 22nd year got fired from my jobs 5 times in a row since accuracy, attention to detail, and speed-tying is a problem for me and am now working as a data entry clerk for 17/hr with barely $20,000 in my account. Now at 23, I feel so stuck and so alone and miserable looking at how this guy who treated me so badly ended up living better than me. He won, they won and everyone that hated me won but I'm miserable, overweight, ugly and broke with no driver's license, car, nice clothes, and house. I hate my life and want to turn it around so badly but due to my biological clock I constantly feel I'm running out of time and I'm desperate for help since everything to improve costs so much money in Canada that I even had to cut my friends so that I could save on Birthday and Christmas gifts. Just help me. I want to be overall respected, loved, confident and cared for and right now none of the above I feel. Just help, please help me...

[MementoMori777]

ill help you and its what you gotta hear, first stop being so stuck in other peoples lives and focus on your own, you can accomplish and reach any goal you want to accomplish but it all takes motivation, some people do have it better than you and thats a fact but there's also people that have it worst and what you have would be a blessing to them, you should honestly be grateful for what you have because its something and you have a job, a family, sounds to me like you want to be a high valued woman and you sound like one to me already, you know how many women are out there prostituting themselves rn for some cash, you want the best things in life ehich i know you can accomplish but not if you are wasting your time seeing what other people are doing, that money you make from your job, save it, invest it and watch yourself grow, an idea is all you need and the only thing stopping you from it is yourself.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Be high value by:

Respecting yourself

Don't be pressured by others

Dedicate yourself to your goals

Treat others respectfully unless they disrespect you

Always do something daily to improve yourself

Don't fall for others words, judge by their actions

[kylee2437]

Don’t fall into the “high value” trap. You aren’t going to get brownie points for being “high value” . Set boundaries that respect what you typically want out of life and the right man will accept and meet you with your values.

[Anonymous]

You don't. You make yourself happy, first and foremost. Furthermore, you don't own men anything.

[Avicenna]

You first need to decide what you want to be, then figure out how to get there, and this needs to be what makes you happy with yourself rather than what you think might impress somebody else

[KrakenAttackin]

Take a breath, your whole life is in front of you. Forget this one guy, at your age there are tons of guys who will want to date you. It sucks you were forced into accounting, but I understand your parents want you to have a marketable skill. Animation won't pay the bills, it's just won't.

It seems like its time for you to strike out on your own, perhaps move to a new city, and begin your life. You don't have to do accounting work, but the credential will help land a job. Have you ever done a personality inventory and/or job interest testing? Check out myplan. com.

Your whole identity does not surround your relationship status, no one knows this better than men.

[kakaling]

Stop watching social media, learn new skills, pick up new hobbies that you can join a community in activities regularly.

Enjoy your hobbies improve on it, when you become really good at it, you will become a senior in the group, your value becomes high naturally. Though you may feel your status sometime intimidate some people, you can't satisfy everyone.

[es20490446e]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=92i5m3tV5XY

[Guardian45]

WHAT daF is a "high value" woman? Who makes up these BS terms?

Sexting has NOTHING to do with being a good person or a virgin?

Sounds like your boyfriend was D! Good riddance to him! NEXT!

[richardcory]

"high value" doesn't mean anything. What matters is finding someone compatible.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Stop listening to those podcasts sis