How do you become the valuable girl and not some easy girl?

[Anonymous]

[ohshee]

Well first of all you have to realize that you are a valuable girl your valuable in so many different ways the first of all your valuable for yourself and yourself only now I'm reading this in two different ways kind of you can be a valuable person and also enjoy having sex making love and there's nothing wrong with that you're just like every other guy who wants to get laid to there's a part of us inside of us that wants to feel that feeling and there's nothing wrong with that whatsoever you can't put yourself down or wanting that if that's what you're talkin about you have to explain it a little bit more to me

[slatyb]

That's not a real distinction. Do whatever you want. Have sex if you want to, but understand that you can't trade sex for commitment. Don't accept anyone else's judgment about your behaviour. Men who judge women for being sexually active are not men you want for a partner.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Don’t give out sex.
Have good morals.
Be productive and proactive.
Be nice and friendly.

[Asker]

I want to show I'm interested with being clingy. I've lost guys in the past by being too independent

[whirled_up_girl]

Appreciate the value you have in yourself and don’t sacrifice it for anyone else.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Life your life without regrets and don't let other peoples opinion make you believe your value as a human being can drop.

[Asker]

Thank you yes who gives them the authority to decide what I do is right

[DavidRaul]

Have self respect and dont agree to anything , anyone says, if you feel like its not right but you still agree. Thats would make you invaluable. Put your perspective and also don't ask for sex, do it with who you are comfortable with. Be patient and respectful. Thats all:)

[Passing_by]

Make yourself scarce, know your priorities, work for your goals, be nice but don't be too available ane don't have sex too early.

[Asker]

How many times is enough to show you are interested without seeming clingy or too attached

[Passing_by]

If it's a clear sign of interest, maybe twice or thrice, it's more than enough. Not more than that.

[Asker]

Does making yourself scarce the best

[lofii]

No such thing as a valuable girl

It's up to the man to place the value on you

[Asker]

I removed myself from him when he didn't respect me

[lofii]

Good on you

[Anonymous]

You're raised that way. If you truly don't know what that is. Then no amount of us telling you in going to help you.

[Wise4myage]

Don't have sex too soon.

[Anonymous]

Save yourself for marriage.

[IsoUser]

I honestly couldn't answer that

[PatriceONeal]

You answered your own question