There are lots of things. When I first got to know my girlfriend, I checked that social media. The instagram. Not ONE revealing, teasing, sexually themed picture on there. Nothing. And the way she dresses when she's out either alone or with me. All covered up, nothing too revealing.
That's one. Another is how she interacts with me. She talks to me if she has a question of if something is wrong. She's got no attitude. Calm, sweet, attentive, polite.
I call the shots. She doesn't have a "he can't tell me what to do". I have the final say. I'll give you a little example. Halloween is coming up and people are decorating. I honestly don't care about decorating my house except for maybe Christmas. She loves to decorate, but she won't because I don't want it and I know she'll go crazy on all kinds of little plastic pumpkins if I'd say yes. My place, my rules. She respects that. She'll try that cute puppy eye look, but I had cats in the past, that is not going to work.
She also cleans, does the dishes, laundry, cooking. All that.
@Adaeva if you know where to look and how to attract the right type, there's still a lot of high-value traditional women around. Tbh I was literally describing the girl I've been talking with for a while now so yes, I've found one. Treat her right and reciprocate the same good values and she'll be here to stay.
I consider myself a high value women. These are the attributes I possess and find high value relationships for the most part (friends and long term partners) . I also am still developing myself so I am a work in progress I hold my own - bills and personal life. I have pretty good communication skills and am open to perspectives that are not my own I am respectful and kind I am open and honest I have experienced enough hurt and harmony to be grateful for what I have and can have in the future I bring a sense of peace and am faithful to a fault. I am expressive and have hobbies and things that are for me and no one can take that from me and love to have easy flowing conversations and fun times. I have a high sense of integrity and a good moral compass. I believe in my self and my capabilities.
Having some or all of these attributes don’t make you high value alone as I believe there are so many more things that make a women high value. This is just my list.
What you list is what makes a man high-value. However, men look for youth, beauty, and purity. Moreover, men determine your sexual market value; not you.
@WhitneySnow In the marketplace, you don't determine your value. The market does. Moreover, in this case, the market are men. The girl on the left may claim to be a 10 and, she is pretty, but if they have a choice, and very few men would that choice, 100% of men would choose the girl on the right.
@Adaeva that is not the way it should be and I’m not sure it’s the way it is either, especially if you’re looking for a serious relationship instead of a hookup. It’s definitely not something that should be supported.
@WhitneySnow You are probably right when you say that is not how it should be. Regardless, that is what me think and do. Look at wives of NBA players. They are all beautiful because men want wives that make them look good to other men. I doubt that they are all good relationship material at least from the the viewpoint of woman.
However, I doubt that most men care provided their wives are arm candy and will fuck. And, NBA players and other wealthy men don't care about the second because any day of the week there are a dozen women they can choose from to fuck.
I am not a super model , I stand 5’7 and have curves and a toned body, physically I notice I tend to appeal to men not just because of my physical appearance but mental capacity to maintain suitable conversation and interestingly enough have been told and shown this to be true. I hold my self in high regard not because I think I may be better then the next women but I know I am one of a kind. Listing masculine traits does not mean I am masculine by nature. I was bought up to be self sufficient and also accept help when it is needed or to ask for it when I recognise a need for help. I think I balance it well. I DO deserve to determine the value of a person that spends time with me and is in my life because I am worth it. My inner self deserves peace and I deserve an absolutely abundant life, and I will definitely defend what type of women I believe I am and it will never be measured by my body or what clothes I wear but how I treat people. Society has a stigma , something you may be caught up in (I’m not here to change your mind on that either- I don’t want to) but I will say we all have strengths, areas of opportunity and things that need to be worked on but it starts on the inside and how that radiates for each individual is apart of what makes you high value- NBA wives shouldn’t be your focus - you should be your focus babe ! Go get the life you deserve 🥰
A woman's self-esteem or income has nothing to do with her value, so here is what actually makes a woman high value:
She is fit, a woman who is fat CANNOT be high value under ANY circumstances
She is under 25
She is a virgin or at least has a body count under 5
She has no history of sex work of any kind for any amount of time, this includes not just prostitution or porn but also stripping, OnlyFans, bottle girl, or sugar baby
She cannot be a single mother
She cannot be a feminist
She doesn't have tattoos, short or brightly-dyed hair, or piercings other than earrings
She will submit to her man and put him first
She does not have friends who are men, feminists, or hoes
Most modern women won't meet all these metrics, but even fewer men are 6'+ with a six pack making over six figures.
She has enough self-confidence in her individuality that she is comfortable with giving up or deligating things to others. To allow to be taken care off and take care of others, without getting defensive or prideful.
@oksoundsgood Honestly, I think that’s society’s way of pressuring women to find someone and to make them feel worthless. Humans treat each other so cruel I don’t even want to be here.
@Sasha0426 For what it’s worth I disagree with the OP. That age range is rather arbitrary. When I saw it I simply thought “sounds cute”. I think I liked the part about the ear piercings most.
Well... While your concept is as you may think , men will be the judge of your spirituality , loyalty , substance within you and how well you build with him for both of your future..
Yikes. That's a seriously, dangerously toxic take. This is the kind of answer that immature, insecure boys will upvote and repeatedly regurgitate on social media without any clue whatsoever about who they are themselves.
Never feel like you need to tie your value to anything other than who you are yourself.
@oksoundsgood It's a common cliche that older men chase much younger women, but charts from the book "Dataclysm" provide real evidence that men at every age are consistently most attracted to women in their early 20s. www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10 Women have value past age 23 but their sexual market value is dropping.
And it’s why relationships don’t last like they do. Society is pressuring women, especially young girls, to find a man and have sex. And then women are blamed for their “poor decisions” in men. It’s because they’re being taught they lose their value on their 24th birthday.
We need to stop fucking rushing people to find someone. It’ll make everyone so damn miserable where they’ll have unhappy relationships. But, I guess that doesn’t matter.
@Adaeva I’m curious, who taught you this? Who told you that you’re no longer valuable once you hit 24? I like to know who is engraving this into your mind.
Also, what if you got married and had kids and your husband left you as a single mother because he found someone that’s 22? What would you do in that situation? Because I’ve heard stories about husbands leaving or cheating their wives because they’re past 23.
@Sasha0426 Obviously women past age 23 have value. However, their sexual market value is highest from 18 to 23 and I believe 14 to 23, if you lived in an earlier society that approved of girls age 14 marrying. The following is one of my earlier post.
I’ll admit though. I blame myself for not being good enough for men when I was 23 or younger. If I could, I would go back in time and fix myself. But, it’s too late now. Anyway, I wish everyone the best.
@oksoundsgood I agree, what's inside us is the most important thing. Which is why being a virgin is so important. Do you really think I value virginity because of physical preferences? Absolutely not. The physical preference of a virgin has no value to me, it's the purity and morality that means everything to me.
@Sasha0426 You still have a sexual market value but less than what it was ten years ago. Millions of men would marry you if showed an interest but most you would never consider. It is all a matter of your minimum standards. If they are equal to what you could have had at age 21 and you are not willing to settle for a bit less, then I agree, it is too late.
Actually, even back when I was in my 20s, men were never interested in me. If they weren’t then, they won’t be now. To be honest, I predicted I was going to be single for the rest of life. I saw it coming.
@Sasha0426 I believe what is logical and it is not logical a woman with your face and high bilateral symmetry was not appealing to a majority of men. Moreover, many if not most men are attracted to freckled face redheads and I believe that would have described you. Of course, at least half of the men are worthless and it is much better to live alone than with one of them.
Not many people would give me the time of day to explain about myself. They believe they got me all figured out. Which is fine, I’ll let them believe whatever they want about me.
She’s happy. In the interest of equality and counter to the words of that abortion of a human Andrew Tate-if women are saddled with figuring out how to bring status to a man, then how do men figure out a way to make women happy?
#1: She's love the lord Jesus Christ and Bible. #2: She's physically pretty. #3: She's smart. #4: She's honest. #5: She's loyal. #6: Knows how to have sex or is seriously willing to learn. #7: Isn't annoying.
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