Is she still interested?

[Anonymous]

Been dating a girl since late September, and last week she lets it spill that she is seeing/texting other guys while dating me. We have been on 5 dates. She states that she is 30 years old, and says something about her biological clock. So she is dating a couple guys at once, but I didn't ask how many. She says that right now I am by far the best man by miles compared to the other men, and she has only kissed me, and no other guy. This was in late October. In early November I tried to schedule a date, but she was busy, and when I asked to make one one for us she stated she was overwhelmed with her dad being needing a surgery, and missed our phone date.

She then went to Mexico in Mid-November with a friend for a wedding. I asked if she wanted to meet up, and she said needed to look at her schedule on the Nov 17. She has been saying good morning, but last night she said she is now too busy to text at work. Sounds like she isn't interest anymore. What should I do?

[RavVid]

I think the question is are you still interested and whether it is acceptable to you. Sure she hasn't kissed any other guys.

Don't believe any of her shit is what you should do. If you do, likely you will find yourself nominally the father of two children, unilaterally divorced by her when they reach elementary school age.

[DarkWinterNights]

She’s either too busy for a relationship or she’s stringing you along. Neither possibility is a good thing. And having a string of backup guys means she likely isn’t going to fully commit to a relationship even if she starts giving you the time of day. And actually, if she has time to leave the country for someone’s wedding then she certainly has time for a date. I highly suggest moving on.

[killadrummer]

Withdraw all your efforts. You clearly have showed that you are willing to put effort into the relationship and she hasn’t reciprocated. Stop contacting her and start looking for other options. I know it sucks but she might notice your absence and reach back out to you after some time passes.

[bededazzle]

it’s pretty normal i think for a woman to date a few guys at first. it’s great she said you’re #1 but i would take it with a grain of salt. i think you have two good options:
1. stop talking to her
2. reach out one last time and then plan on not talking to her

like i said, girls date around a little, but it’s probably about time for her to pick one guy.

it doesn’t sound good.

[exitseven]

Stop calling her and see what happens. If she is really interested she will get hold of you. If not you just saved yourself a pile of trouble

[tfan1]

Find a better girl. Clearly she’s too busy for you unfortunately. Good luck my friend 👍🙂

[BourbonAndBacon]

Don't waste your time with her. She isn't giving you any effort. You can do better than date someone who is dating a dozen other guys.