We've talked all day everyday for 3 months until a week ago. Our convos were deep, fulfilling, and exciting--and it's hard to find someone who can match me on that. Once he told me he's not into astrological signs (his Insta bio suggests otherwise) but asked me mine. Then said he never talked to a Capricorn before. I could give a crap about that stuff BUT I'm noticing some truth behind them and now I don't know if he's still interested in me. We've talked every day all day since October--now I won't hear from him all day.
Yesterday I got a "Sorry I've just been in a weird mood and haven't really wanted to talk to anyone. Just been feeling off." I get it, no worries. I said I noticed but understood it happens & if he ever needed me I was there to help. 2 minutes later: "Don't take it personal. I just like to be left alone sometimes and stick to myself when I'm in a weird state of mind" Then said he also hasn't been feeling good, was having an off week and he appreciated it. Again said I understood, would be there if he needed me and hoped his week got better. Next morning I get: "Hi" so I said "hey there". 15 min later he said "Hey how are you". I answered. No reply.
What's his deal? He's so hard to read. The other day I invited him to a lights thing for next weekend and he agreed. He's told me before he doesn't care if he looks like the bad guy and won't sugar-coat things because honesty is important to him, but I don't know if he's always being honest with me. I wasn't even that interested in him in the beginning and if he's not interested anymore, I just wanna know straight up. I also don't want to confront him right now if it's nothing. I'm gonna see how Saturday goes, but I want opinions. Does it seem like this guy is still interested in me or did he get burnt out/bored? Maybe he felt like it was moving too fast and he's backing off? Maybe I need to just have a drink and let this run its course.
Yesterday I got a "Sorry I've just been in a weird mood and haven't really wanted to talk to anyone. Just been feeling off." I get it, no worries. I said I noticed but understood it happens & if he ever needed me I was there to help. 2 minutes later: "Don't take it personal. I just like to be left alone sometimes and stick to myself when I'm in a weird state of mind" Then said he also hasn't been feeling good, was having an off week and he appreciated it. Again said I understood, would be there if he needed me and hoped his week got better. Next morning I get: "Hi" so I said "hey there". 15 min later he said "Hey how are you". I answered. No reply.
What's his deal? He's so hard to read. The other day I invited him to a lights thing for next weekend and he agreed. He's told me before he doesn't care if he looks like the bad guy and won't sugar-coat things because honesty is important to him, but I don't know if he's always being honest with me. I wasn't even that interested in him in the beginning and if he's not interested anymore, I just wanna know straight up. I also don't want to confront him right now if it's nothing. I'm gonna see how Saturday goes, but I want opinions. Does it seem like this guy is still interested in me or did he get burnt out/bored? Maybe he felt like it was moving too fast and he's backing off? Maybe I need to just have a drink and let this run its course.
