I met this guy on Hinge. We went out twice , the way he talked to me in person or in text really felt as if the guy is interested in me but after the 2nd date , I could sense an energy shift from his side, he is not available anymore like he was between the 1st and 2nd date (The second date was 3 days after the 1st date ) Though he had mentioned he has a hectic work schedule so I gave him a benefit of doubt that maybe he is busy and even tried talking to him about this but he said I am overthiking and I shouldn't worry about it but still I feel he is just keeping me hanging, I don't know I am just very confused.
Whatever this "Hinge" is, I presume that it must be one of those online dating sites where people primarily go, not to date, but to try to get intimate as quickly as possible with the people that fall for it.
I presume that you did not give him what he had expected and that he lost interest in you. Seeing that he could get you where he wanted after the first date, he gave the excuse that he was busy rather than to be honest with you and telling you that you did not meet his expectations.
No, the guy is no longer interested in you and if you are interested in a long term relationship rather than a short quicky, then all those dating platforms are the wrong place to find what you are seeking for.
You are definitely not overthinking the entire situation. He may want to keep you warm, just in case he cannot find a substitute. Time to let go.
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when I am overwhelmed with something, I back away rather than rush into things unnecessarily.
It seems like he has more important commitments than you pressing at this moment. I would not count on hearing from him. Sorry.
Your instincts are likely right. There's a good chance he connected with someone else in the site too and is keeping you hanging in case they don't work out. If you're feeling like things have changed, they probably have
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What did you all do on the dates and did you schedule date 3?
Men date for different reasons then women. This seems to be what you are dealing with.
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