Do you guys think he’s not interested in me anymore?

[Anonymous]

•He still watches all my stories in both social medias.
•We’ve been talking for 5 months and we live 5 hours away.
•It doesn’t feel like an online relationship.
•He wanted to meet me either way me going there or him coming to my city. •He told me he wants a formal relationship.

•He was texting and calling frequently until the next day he stopped and started being cold I asked and he told me that is because he’s the only one contacting me first and if he doesn’t contact me first I don’t do it. I didn’t believe him and ended our relationship or whatever we had because I had flash backs of how someone hurt me and I cried for 3 years until this guy appeared in my life. Im insecure because he’s good looking and might be talking to other girls.

[noemiii]

It sounds like maybe you need to heal. You’re talking about all of this stuff with him but I hope you realize that even if it did turn into a relationship, unless you’re fully healed it will just be filled with insecurity, always thinking the other person is cheating, bad communication, toxicity etc. like, there is no way it’d be healthy. The only one who can fix you is yourself and entering a relationship prematurely will only make how you’re feeling worse and postpone it and possibly get you another heartbreak if he is a bad person.

So my answer is none of this matters, you need to be alone and find some self love because you will never find that in others.

[spartan55]

So he told you what was bothering him and your response was to not believe him and end it?
Yeah, you sound way too immature for a relationship.

[boggboss]

I think how u acted turned him off yeah

[Asker]

That I didn’t text first?

[boggboss]

Yes I wouldn't continue to talk to a women that showed no interest to talk