I've been out with this guy twice now - second time was tonight. We had dinner and then we went to his apartment and watched tv and chatted. When he invited me over, I thought for sure he'd try to kiss me or at least cuddle a little because every guy I've dated in the past has been that way.
But nothing.
We say pretty close, sometimes touching, but I think that was mostly my doing. He wasn't trying to initiate anything except a brief hug at the end. He also didn't say we should do it again like he did after the first date. But we talked easily and I would still like to see him again so I'm scared of what to do next. I want to ask if he's still interested, Because I am and that if he's not I'd rather just know than try to guess at it and end up feeling hurt and rejected. I just don't know if that's a bad idea or not :/ planing to text him a thank you tomorrow so might bring it up then? I'd just like to have an idea of what's coming. Not asking for any kind of comittment, I just don't want to be the only one putting anything forward.
But nothing.
We say pretty close, sometimes touching, but I think that was mostly my doing. He wasn't trying to initiate anything except a brief hug at the end. He also didn't say we should do it again like he did after the first date. But we talked easily and I would still like to see him again so I'm scared of what to do next. I want to ask if he's still interested, Because I am and that if he's not I'd rather just know than try to guess at it and end up feeling hurt and rejected. I just don't know if that's a bad idea or not :/ planing to text him a thank you tomorrow so might bring it up then? I'd just like to have an idea of what's coming. Not asking for any kind of comittment, I just don't want to be the only one putting anything forward.
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