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then tells you something like "let's cherish these moments, cause our honeymoon stage won't last that long"?

as pessimistic as this sounds this is the brutal truth. obviously anyone who's been in a relationship knows that the honeymoon stage will not last throughout ar elationship. couples always start to fight and resent each other at least a year after the initiation of the relationship obviously I'm not saying these means they dont love each other anymore. its like what my aunt used to say...

new brooms always sweep the cleanest.

however a lot of people nowadays dont seem to understand this. they are so deeply programmed by Disney movies that they think they've finally found their prince/princess and will live happily ever after not realizing that they are just in the honeymoon stage of the relationship and they still got a long way to go,

anyways are you one of those sensitive people that would take the above to the heart?

Lets say they are doing something wrong... they know it... even know why... but they won't stop. You've listened, explained, coached, guided, supported... they get counseling even and that has not progressed them. The wrong they do can "blow up" and hurt themselves or others but they are unable to stop as yet. In the meantime, the drama continues as they play out to you the drama of their daily life.

They can be a wonderful person in some areas, but poison in others.

Do you abandon such friends, when?

Example: Adolph loves his girlfriend and is wonderful to his favorite dog. But Adolph is hurting others via his policies, based upon his fears.

Bob is lying to his girlfriend... he knows it's wrong, and knows why he does it... but keeps doing it due to fear of the consequences. The result is emotional drama as his girlfriend is confused and frustrated.