I've known this guy by a group chat with our friends. At first I was interested in him and thought he was perfect, I gave him attention on the group 24/7 and I always replied to his messages. However, I started noticing how mean he is. For example, he removed my follow on his ig and he doesn't reply when I talk to him on private (he does rarely). Yesterday he made another group and I entered it bc he was in it. I noticed how he flirts with some girls there. There was a girl who became an admin in the grp but when I told him to make me an admin, he removed my admin access after an hour. He's literally so perfect but he don't care about my existence and I can't stop thinking about him. Do you think I should forget him or flirt with him to notice.
Just by reading your words maybe 30 seconds I can tell you have a very beautiful heart you're kind your loyal. And you're a good person.
Don't hold yourself back because if he didn't notice you within 30 seconds he never will.
You have to understand that all the feelings that you feel inside he did not give you those you give them to yourself because that's who you are
No matter what when people come into our lives it starts to do in chapter it's a brand new moment and we think those people are the ones that give us those feelings but we're the only ones on the inside so we are the only ones that can give us those feelings
You are an asset to yourself
Just keep being you the real you and believe me somebody will notice
Stop basing relationships around messaging and social media, it is truly pathetic. This is why you are miserable. Step out into the real world, it is a much nicer place.
If his personality and how he treats you sucks then none of that superficial stuff matters. All I can envision for you in the future is ‘he’s not being good to me but he’s hot’ or ‘it sucks that he mistreats me, but at least he looks good and has great music tastes’ lol. You should want more for yourself than that and knowing your worth should be how you get over him. He is not perfect, he’s a jackass, you deserve more than that.
