I want to start going without a bra. But I can't get over my fear. How many other girls go braless?

[Hannahm67]

I recently moved away from home for school and I want to start going braless because It's comfy and I read that it is good for you.
I don't have anywhere close to large breasts just B cups so I am not try to cover much. Growing up my moms view was that any girl that didn't wear a bra in public was a slut. But any time I was at home I went without because it was far more comfy. Did go without sometimes but only while wearing a sweater or a fleece pullover so my mom and no one else could tell. I always loved doing this because of how comfy it was. I started doing it more when i got older but the problem was I could only do it in the winter and i was scared of my mom finding out. Well now I am at college and basically went braless all winter but it is hot now. I have been trying to do it with a t-shirt but can only push my self to do short trips out inside the dorm. It is common to see other girls going without so I would not be out of place but I just can't get over the fear of being judged and called a slut for it. It's stupid because with my breast size you have to really look to tell I don't have a bra on. My friends didn't even know until i told them.

If anyone has any advice to get over my fear it would be nice.

I always wear a bra.

I only go without in sweaters.

I sometimes go without.

I never wear a bra.

[Anonymous]

I only wear them for exercise. I don't even think I own normal bras anymore. I stopped when I went to college. They're just uncomfortable. I was also trying to retrain myself to breathe properly (because until then I had to wear a brace for scoliosis which made it impossible), and the restriction around the ribcage wasn't helpful. The muscles were weakened from wearing the brace for so long, so I tried to minimize any sort of restrictive clothing. I also absolutely hated the feeling because having anything tight around my torso just reminds me of the brace.

Most people don't even notice. If you're really worried about your nipples showing though, which is just about the only way people can occasionally tell, try wearing a cami underneath. If it's too hot for that, flowy sundresses are good for that as well. They're usually lined, which has the same effect as wearing a cami underneath. My summer wardrobe is mostly sundresses anyway.

[witherwing]

If you don't need the support, why just not go for it. A bra is mainly worn for the support, not to cover up. I always wear a bra, but it's because it hurts if I don't. Me wearing a bra has nothing to do with being modest.

[Secret6620]

I don't. But usually flat chested girls can get away with it. If I do it I will be labeled a distraction 💜💙💚

[Gedaria]

Seeing you have small breasts you are more able to do this. Just try doing it instead of a bra a crop top under your normal clothes. If you feel ok with that and no one says anything try it with out the crop top see how you feel and if anyone notice...

[ryantangle]

Im pretty sure i read they get more saggy. You should look at the tribes in jungles and see how saggy their boobs are 😮😯😯😯😯 they are young and really saggy i wouldn't

[EmilyS1]

I go without my bra when I wear sweaters soft sweaters feel the best. I feel my breasts are to large to be comfy in a t-shirt. You should not feel like a slut for wanting to go braless. Its a completely healthy normal thing. Just do what make you happy and don't care what other people think.

[Preston69]

You something soft on breasts

[soe11]

My girlfriend and her mom never wear bra at home because of tropical climate and mostly going out as well.
Not feels comfortable.

[DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999]

Its your choice if you don't want to wear a bra and you are not a slut you can go out with a friend when the both of you are not wearing bras and try to get used to it

[Swimmerdude2013]

I say go for it. Also if you go braless, I suggest getting a pair of pasties to put over your nipples so they don't show through your tops!

[hansukota]

U can go braless by wearing certain clothing that are not "transparent"

[Anonymous]

I think at school it's not a problem but ehat will you do in a professional setting?

[Anonymous]

I highly recommend you dont wear a bra, just speaking on behalf of all men over here

[Jenny4455]

I virtually never wear a bra, way more comfy

[SexyAshh]

Me🙋‍♀️

[Anonymous]

do not go without a bra. it's not cool