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If you see what girls write on dating profiles, they’ll put must be 6ft, millionaire etc… also only the model looking guys get all of the likes.

I’m an exceptional guy and gonna go on and do exceptional things and I don’t get many really pretty girls after me. I have a lot of okay looking girls, which doesn’t make any sense to me. I’m just a realist. I’m so lucky!!

So it makes me question. Are men held to attainable standards?

It’s like they expect you to be a tall handsome millionaire at 27. I come from a very rich background and that’s not even possible even for me 🤡

I went through this about 10 years ago. My then 25 year old girlfriend made more than me when I was 32. But at the time I was pursuing a dream (I was a professional athlete) and I my time was consumed with training. I was no dead beat but I just had a different focus at the time.

I was doing freelance work just to pay the bills and I was struggling. She even offered me money at one time (which extremely kind of her) but it I turned it down out of pride and went further in debt.

Anyway the insecurity was on my side when it can to this (also contributed to our break up). She didn’t care but I did. It had a lot to with being raised to “be a man” when it came to being a breadwinner.

Nowadays I make a lot more money given I’m retired from my sport and have full focus on my career. But I am also a lot more “boring” now since I’m no longer the free wheeling adventurer I once was.

But money is a touchy issue. Form a evolutionary perspective I really do believe most women still subconsciously expect a man to provide for them even it’s unnecessary or impractical. They might get into short term flings with guys who offer other benefits (looks, excitement, adventurer, personality, etc) but when it comes to long term commitments they have a much higher bar on this

I also believe when a woman makes more money then her boyfriend/husband she’s more prone to cheating. Especially if she is comparable to him when it comes to looks (maybe she will stay loyal if she’s physically unattractive compared to him)

In fact I believe it’s unfairly more socially “acceptable” for a woman to do this given the guy is considered a “chump” if he is financial dependent on her. More more acceptable then vice versa.

I have a divorced uncle who worked a low paying his entire life and was supported by his (comparably) rich wife. She was no multi millionaire but she earned a lot more than him.

She ended up cheating on him the entire marriage. He tolerated it because they had kids and he needed support.

I think a lot harder. To get female attention you’ve gotta be pretty outstanding. This is also pushed a lot by social media. You gotta be handsome, tall, be in great shape, somehow a millionaire in your early 20s.

That’s what seems to attract a lot of attention from women. Even still you end up with a girl who’s not that great who’s hot but has jumped around men and has been a wh*re.

However the odd rare time you will see a plain normal guy with a great girl.

I see it everywhere online with dating. ‘High value men’

It seems like it a guy that’s a millionaire with status, tall, handsome, really fit too and then loyal funny etc… from what they say

crazy but that’s all we’re worth to women perhaps