How do I tell my brother I hate his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

My little brother is 18 and he's just gotten his first girlfriend who he met at college. Her name his chloe and she's also 18.

She loves social media and is very big into her insta and tiktok and wants to be a influencer as soon as I met her I just knew she wasn't a nice girl instantly but I thought to myself my brother is a grown man now and can make his own opinions and choices with people now and that I shouldn't judge her straight away.

They've been dating for 6 months and she expects so much from him. He got a job whilst at college and I was really proud of him but then I find out it's because he's trying to keep her happy with gifts and fancy dates which is nice too but she's so ungrateful and entitled it's disgusting.

He made her a boo basket because shed been asking for one, I'd never heard of this before and thought it was abit of a dumb idea but I took him shopping with me to primark and helped him out. I thought the stuff we got her was really cute but when she came over all I could hear was shouting upstairs saying it was a load of shit and but she was expecting something abit more expensive.

I wanted to go up there and tell her off but I held back because It isn't my business.

Then I find her tiktok and insta and there's loads of inappropriate pics and videos of her in her tiny little bikinis and they had loads of creepy comments on there and she was commenting back and loving the attention. It broke my heart, my brother loves her so much and this is how she treats him. Why would she need to most pics like that online if she was content with my brother.

After the boo basket Incident she stromed out the house and my brother looked really down. I gave him a big hug and he said "I'm never gonna be good enough, I'm so stupid "

I'm married to a fucking millionaire and I get flowers every so often if I'm lucky this girl is so ungrateful. Money can't buy love, easy to say for me yes but I'm not spoilt like that. Nothing wrong with a home cooked meal.

[boggboss]

Why do u need to tell him that how will that help him if he decides to stay with her it will create a rift between the two of you just help him see that in a relationship your partner should respect you and not act how she does

[Asker]

He lives with me and I don't want her coming to my house anymore

[boggboss]

Then u will need to tell him but be prepared as it could cause a issue that pushes him towards her and away from u

[Nirmroth]

Sit down with him and talk. Siblings as far as I know will always spew the truth even if it hurts and its what makes them valuable. Im glad I have a sister who sometimes calls me out on my bs.

[DryGermanGuy]

Just a prediction from personal experience, this will have a painful ending for your brother and he won't get over it quickly. But he will learn a lot from it and grow a thicker skin.

[LiamJHayden]

He might not listen. Some lessons have to be learned the hard way. Just be there for him after she breaks him.

[Danny_dan92]

“I don’t like your girlfriend”