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I dated the most stunning girl from my small religion/culture. She was phenomenally beautiful in my eyes. She had v rare features like bright green eyes and fair skin and very natural. Never seen a girl like her - how does she even exist? We had a really good connection/chemistry too!

The reasons she gave me for breaking up with me were that I was tight with money. I did gift her small things, pay for the first 5 dates, and then we did 50/50.

I wish I gave her the full princess treatment. I wish honestly 😭 I am that way inclined to provide but my sisters mainly told me not too. I wish I could go back as she told me she felt protected when I would pay for her things. She wanted the soft life. She loved the whole ‘daddy’ thing.

The part that confused me was she didn’t want to give up work when she gets married.

I was good to her, but I should’ve just worshipped her so I know I tried my best even if she left so I would have no regrets.

My first girlfriend and I should have given it my all. I still tried my best but look back at small mistakes I made. My life is over 😭

If you are really rich is it okay to split bills with your beautiful girlfriend who makes more modest money?

You pay for like the first 6 dates then split it 50/50.

Reasoning, both are working and you’ve only known her for a few months. You as the man don’t want to be used for money/date a gold digger. You want a girl that likes you for you.

Is that fair play?

The guy is from a really rich family and only recently started making a lot of money.

The first few dates the the guy paid. Then 50/50 on everything. Is there anything wrong with that?

He would spend hours on the phone everyday and drive to see her a lot straight after work.

Treated her well, caring, emotionally available. Even when broke up he did not insult her. Did gift her but not expensive things.

Girl felt the guy should have contributed more monetarily to make her feel special.