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When I was 23 I got pregnant with my past boyfriend at the time. We both wanted a baby so we tried for one then I ended up pregnant. His parents were supported and his friends were supportive too. I announced my pregnancy to his friends and he congratulated us. Me and him were still living with our parents at the time. I was planning on living at his parents house after the baby was born. We both had part time jobs. But my mom found out I was pregnant and was very pissed and not supportive at all and made me have an abortion because I wasn’t ready for a baby yet. She thought that it wasn’t the right time because I wasn’t settled and I only had a part time job and he did too. I ended up having the abortion when I wanted the baby and he did too and my ex boyfriend was mad I gotten the abortion. there isn’t a day where I don’t think about it and see how my life would be like as a mother at that time. But I know other girls that gotten pregnant while still living with their parents and their parents were very supportive. Could me being autistic be the reason my mom made me have an abortion? Should I have kept the baby and moved in with my ex bf’s parents house because I was adult who can make decisions? Some people think that I should have kept the baby and moved in with his parents because I’m an adult and should have not listened to my mom! What do you think about this?

Let’s start by saying my ex boyfriend came to Europe with me for my birthday after I told him i would go alone.. Our first day I got a bit jealous of two women he met through a group at a bar who are just friends and accused him of dating one of them and he said he’s not dating anyone. Then night time came and we got drunk, we spoke about one of his siblings dating (note: I am close to his cousin that’s how we met) since i was drunk I spilled the beans about this sibling and then he made a sly comment and then said he “dated” a “Russian “ girl who met his parents last year bc of his sister (she tried to get me to meet his parents after 3 dates ). I was blindsided since I never met his parents. I blew up and had a breakdown and left the hotel to go dancing and he text me while I was out alone he only went on a few dates with this girl and his sister tried to hype this person up. This is where it gets interesting (He’s never had a girlfriend and the one he counts as an ex he only saw 7 times and was long distance) Anyway, I come back to the hotel crying, of course, and he says to me, “Let me explain “ as he got up from the bed “I only said I went on dates with this girl since you kept using the word dating but i never dated her and she wasn’t Russian. I only saw her three times at the same bar my sister goes to and i deleted her number and don’t even remember her name. My sister was drunk and invited this girl to meet my parents when they were in town but i only had meetings with her at the bar & got drinks i never took her out to dinner or a proper date she was a random girl and i only saw her 3 times in the four weeks.“ I then i asked if she was introduced as a girlfriend or date and he said “my sister got excited and wanted to hype this girl up to my parents for me but didn’t go well bc they didn’t even like her. “ I haven’t spoken to her in months and it was last May”