Why are men so attracted to a woman's happiness and self-love energy?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Today I had a 3rd date, we went to pottery together, we carved a cup with both of our initials. I posted a video but I was only seen alone in it and a lot of people loved it.

Yesterday my ex posted a photo of his new girlfriend for the first time right after I posted my new look and she looks stunning.

I didn’t sleep whole night from the emotions, she’s so exotic, sexy Amazonian woman. Total opposite of me. I am barely 5 ft 2, she’s at least 5’8. And opposite in every way you could think of other than she’s got a great body too, that we both do.

However despite those emotions today I went out and had an amazing fun. The date went well. It was sweet and relaxing and I felt very good. We’ll likely meet again on Sunday for a home cooked dinner.

The thing is as soon as I posted a video of me doing pottery, all the past dates of mine who I faded away from in the past when I was emotionally unavailable, are telling me I look so happy and beautiful that a man wants to just spoil you and make you smile again. So one of my old dates sent me flowers today. Again.

Then there’s this tennis player ex date of mine who I stayed friends with but he likes me, he wants to teach me tennis and a lot of people are showing interest now that I look happy. There are others too, but these are the news of today.

Even my ex, THAT one, has been stalking my stories over and over again. I wonder if men are attracted to the woman’s happiness and unbothered, self loving energy and if that’s so - why is that so attractive?

[Grond21]

Oh my gosh, you have no idea how attractive that energy is. By far it is one of the most attractive aspects to a woman that has ever been created. A man who has a woman like that is the luckiest man. Or the best husband, because he usually creates the safety and freedom in which she can express herself.

As to why it is so attractive, it's because it's living your live in the masculine frame, where everything is logical and ordered with a clear utilitarian purpose. This creates high functioning, but it is sterile and empty. Like a tower of stone, or a black and white TV. But then a woman who is truly herself comes in, and it's as if the clouds parted for the sun to shine down. The tower is now covered with blooming flowers and the TV has full color. In other words, we can build things, but women make it come alive.

[whosnumber_1]

I think you doubt yourself to much. Your beautiful and it sounds to me like you dont have problems meeting people and going on dates. You strike me as someone who is somewhat outgoing from what I've read and I bet you can carry a conversation. To me I think you have a lot to offer but are you asking the question because happiness and self love is something you are missing?

Happiness and self love are signs of confidence and stability. If you don't love yourself it's hard to be present enough for someone else.

You don't need a guy in your life to make you happy you have everything you need in your beautiful self.

[Amy10223]

Yes, I would say so. Just like you would prefer to be with an outgoing, friendly man with a nice smile and good attitude, I think men would prefer that over a brooding, sad kind of woman, who complains a lot and hardly smiles. People are attracted by bright, positive, energy.

[WhitneySnow]

Probably. Never really thought about it but that makes sense.

[NathanDavis]

the first answer to this question... I just love LOVE to see someone genuinely happy because why not? that's what life is about... well, a life worth living should be like that, so yeah not only I would want to be ANOTHER of the reason why she's that happy... but even when I have nothing to do with it, I do feel happy for others too

the second answer to this question... and more specific to your cause, I don't know... I have no idea because I've never done that before in my life and that just sounds weird to me, lol

[Tyler_with_Questions]

Men’s attraction to a woman’s happiness and self-love energy goes very deep.. Happiness signals emotional health, confidence, and authenticity, which are universally attractive traits.

Your personal experience vividly illustrates how this energy can rekindle interest and admiration, even from past partners, because it represents growth, vitality, and emotional availability.

It’s great that you reached this place in your life.

[OneViewpoint]

LOL, anyone (male or female) who is giving off a healthy happy vibe will be more attractive than someone who is sullen and nasty. This ain't rocket science.

[sawno]

It just is attractive, people love uplifting energy. I have that as a requirement for a partner to that she is very uplifting. If you can both be happy and uplift each other isn't that the basis for a great relationship?

[ProbablyClueless]

It's rejuvenating to be around someone who genuinely loves and enjoys herself. Someone who is truly comfortable in his/her own skin gives off a peaceful aura that other people tend to find healing.

[fish5505_87]

I mean, I want people to be happy in general, not sure it's related to your hypothesis? I think maybe, you just have, IT! You have a personality that people gravitate to, and when your happy, smiling, and your effervescent personality punches through, people notice. No, I think it's just you!

[soe11]

• Absolutely without a single doubt.

[LiamJHayden]

Someone like that is more likely to bring peace rather than drama.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause that tells us that she's in a good head space

[exitseven]

The world is a cruel and unrelenting place and a woman with positive energy can be like a big ray of sunshine in an otherwise brutal existence.

[Nikki1989]

It’s less about “men liking positivity” and more about what that energy represents.

[Grilo]

I would just get over the girl tbh. Sometimes it’s just curiosity.

[Zionne]

women are very attractive when they're confident

[Anonymous]

I'm primarily attracted to woman's looks. If she's got the looks, I'm also attracted to her self-confidence, assertiveness, and dominant behavior.

[Opinion Owner]

Why? Because I like dominant girls. Shy girls are definitely not my type, because I'm too shy. I need a girl who is able to take initiative.

[Unycorn]

It is the aura that is attractive of that woman.

[Jennz6]

Are they really?

[In_Trance]

Lol... Sure they are

[jahaims]

That is a sign she is emotionally healthy

[beefcakebradybatson]

We boys love girlish women.

[888theGreat]

Who thought of this idea?

[Daytoday79]

I love powerful women