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Long story short, not to criticize, I'm just giving a description of how she looks and her health. Details: She has always taken jabs at me on the job for being fit. She'll ask me intrusive questions like," Are you still losing weight? What size are you now? You don't need to lose any more weight." I've never asked her for her opinion. Yet she's overweight, feet/legs/arms swollen, high blood pressure , on multiple medications, has glaucoma, can't drive. I've never once brought up how unhealthy she is despite knowing her circumstances. Now her husband has died because, like her, he didn't take care of himself.

Her mother is just as overweight with the same health issues, including heart failure, yet her mother said ," omg you're getting too skinny!" I told the mom, " I'm healthy and not on multiple medications , don't have heart failure, and swollen ankles like you. Are you feeling okay?" She then said oh um well did I say something wrong? "I said," Oh no, you didn't bother me. I'm just saying. Now they're trying to be all nice to me, but I'm keeping my distance. This is a work setting, by the way.

I am 25 and while I have not had anything super unordinary happen like rare cancer or losing a limb, I am cursed in my own way. I have dealt with bullying in my younger years, I was never homeschooled & it resulted because kids were mean & being overweight did not help the issue. I lose weight and still have no friends, I’ve gone from being somewhat friendly to absolutely closed off & antisocial. I don’t speak to anyone at work, even here, I have one woman that I can’t stand and vice versa. For someone quiet yet still stands her ground, drama follows me everywhere. I’ve never had a real romantic relationship and only get noticed by undesirable men or good looking/douchey men.

What is killing my vibe are two recent unfortunate incidents. One, I purchased my condo last year and am dealing with noisy neighbors. While, I was told that this was not something I was going to deal with. And two, I rescue an elderly dog, who I was told did not have any ongoing health issues. Yes, he is healthy but has vomiting/takes leaks/poops often in my home. Life is so cold, when you’re told something and the exact opposite occurs. I was mislead and I just cannot have the ideal life. I understand life is supposed to have challenges but I just cannot have a smooth sail on a frequent basis. There’s always something else to ruin my mood & I know for a fact I’m one of the few rare people this happens to. I’m told that this happens to everyone but I don’t think to my severity.

Anyone else empathize or want to object?