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Search Results: how to get guys to approach me
How do I stop needing to be the best at everything and accept mediocrity?
I peaked early in life, I was a child prodigy and so now I hate being a normal guy…I miss the feeling of being better than everyone around me at something…it has unfortunately affected my dating life too where I refuse to...
JoshicusBoss88
Xper 1 Age: 27 Does a polished, formal style attract older men over guys my age?
Hey everyone, just wanted to get some thoughts on something I’ve been noticing lately. My everyday style tends to be pretty polished, formal, and put-together. Because of that, I've realized I rarely get approached by...
sophia2007
Xper 1 Age: 18 Girls, how can I get more ready and confident for a relationship?
I (22M) have a lot going well for me. I've graduated from college, have a job I really enjoy, have a great social circle and family, and have some of the best friends. I have been making a lot more female friends over the...
Anonymous
(18-24) How can I approach women respectfully without feeling like I’m bothering them?
So in order to get a date, I have to actually talk to women, right? The problem is... I feel bad about talking to women in public. Let's negate more common areas where being hit on is more expected, like the bar, a club,...
Anonymous
(18-24) Can guys be friends with girls?
Is it true that guys never want to be friends with girls? I feel like I get along better with guys so I hang out and talk with guys more. Does that mean that there is something going on between us absolutely not I just...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I get better at talking to girls without awkward silences?
I am still single and i have a hard time at dating. When i see attractive girl i want to approach the thing holding me back is that i dont know what would i say and talk about. my biggest fear is walking up to an...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does "the guy who likes to watch" actually want from a woman?
I tell a guy I love to dance and he starts to whine about how his dancing days are over. I ask "really"? and start teasing him about it bc he's physically fit and very sporty, so this seems odd. I tell him that it's too...
How to slow down without hitting the breaks on a new flirtatious association?
I just met a guy (a few years older, nothing crazy). Seems nice. He approached me... which I like. Has good gentlemanly manners... which I like. He works in an industry I understand... which is good, so we can talk shop...
How is an attractive shy guy meant to respond to women who want me to approach?
My last question was meant to ask this. I am abnormal, though evidently in a blessed + cursed way. I attract women who think I am attractive, and who I find to be very attractive; but I have zero ability to approach...
Anonymous
(25-29) What’s the craziest real-life drama or story you’ve ever been in?
For me When I was 21 and in College I met my today boyfriend (who was 24 back in the day) It was early times of our relationship. One Time I was at the bar and there were guy (i think my boyfriend knows) tryna approach...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did none of the girls at this party want to take pictures with me?
So yesterday I went to a nice party, at a charity. I have been there every now and then for 7 months. I met many girls over there, but never approached anyone. I was good to everyone , made them laugh At least...
Anonymous
(25-29) If you want a guy to approach you, what subtle hints actually work?
Just curious, guys approach anyone and get ignored so much.
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever done a cold approach or girls, have you ever been cold approached by a guy?
I once met a girl on the subway. We had never seen each other before, but she kept looking at me for a few seconds, so I smiled, started a conversation right away, and got her number. I mean, has anything like this ever...
MerakSahibi
Xper 4 Age: 24 
Why does everyone seem more attractive in this new country than me?
A single guy in a new country, I noticed everything one I see over here is much more attractive then my own country's Especially girls. It's difficult to actually approach someone who is hell of more attractive and...
Anonymous
(25-29) What actually helped you build confidence when you felt unattractive?
I have always struggled with self doubt and insecurities even though there were many girls interested in me. Couple of times i run into a guys who told me i am handsome. But i have always struggled around girls i like and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Democrat politicians say dumb stuff & lost support, how are they anti-war & stay in NATO meaning send our troops to FIGHT for Europe, BOTH?
1. democrat politicians stupidly jump at the loud small groups. pro palestine is loud and the "quad squad ilhan omar" is loud, so they agree! kamala also agreed with a loud protester who asked, "You aren't speaking about...
strateguy632
Master Age: 50 How can I confidently approach a cute guy I noticed on the subway?
There was this really stylish guy on the subway the other day I kept stealing glances at. He looked very confident till he got off and suddendly switched to a cute lost puppy searching for the exit but he looked back at...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls and guys you ever get approached just because of the shirt you wore?
I was out doing my deliveries last night when these two women who were hot af saw me wearing my Zohran Mamdani shirt and we started talking about political stuff and also snapped a pic of me. unfortunately i was so in the...
Still-alive
Master Age: 42 
What are the harsh, honest signs that a girl is unattractive?
I want brutal, honest answers. Not lighthearted reassurance. I see people beneath other posts usually doing that, and its a little bit frustrating. I have never been approached as a girl, or kissed or asked out to be...
Anonymous
(18-24) How can I reach out to a long-distance crush I barely know without being weird?
So quick thing: There's a guy I've met when I was super young. We were both 13. Moving fast forward, we were never friends at all but we got along like classmates, however he's in the US and im living around MENA region,...
Anonymous
(18-24) 