Why does everyone seem more attractive in this new country than me?

[Anonymous]

A single guy in a new country, I noticed everything one I see over here is much more attractive then my own country's
Especially girls.
It's difficult to actually approach someone who is hell of more attractive and fit more then me.
And the ones those are not attractive, are kinda rude.
Mostly it's uncalled for.
I am making new friends every Thursday but still it's kinda like who can be interested in me in place of whom should I approach.
Asking this question everyday like who will say yes to a date.
How should I narrow it down? I don't wanna be the guy who has asked everyone in the charity on a date but never got one.(Happened to me before in another city)

[NathanDavis]

looks like the insecurity sneaked into the luggage... didn't stay behind

[Asker]

True it did, finding myself in similar situations, but tbh better handling of the condition. But unable to score at all

[NathanDavis]

make some friends instead... give it some more time

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I agree 100% with Nathan, make friends first. Friends will teach you the rules of this new society.

I'm reasonably sure that no girlfriends will want to teach you that. But Friends will be okay with that.

[Asker]

Yaa I only have a single friend from UK rn (I am actually more interested in aisans and 2nd gen Asians )

[Asker]

I do have 2 Chinese friends, but the issue is there group is already set in stone and all are Chinese.
I wanna find more different Asians tbh

[Calyptomaniac]

Maybe people in that country seem more attractive to you... because that country has more attractive people... don't overcomplicate it

[Nikki1989]

Ugh, why are anons always a beer short of a six-pack?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

What is your country of origin and your current country now?

[Asker]

Don't wanna say that

[Asker]

But I am in UK

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

No problem, would you say that the culture of the country you come from is very different from what you see in your new life in the UK?

[Asker]

Yes absolutely, it is
again the issue does lie in me tho as I am again falling into the same place as back home, unable to get a date or rejection.
Back home as well I wasn't getting any dates.
I am really ugly and unattractive (especially my body structure is not good, I am 173 cm with 60 kg, which is board line between normal and underweight)
The thing is I have taken a lot of effort to be this much, and I got to know that it's still not enough. But I am hoping that someone will ignore these things.
As I am still trying to build up muscle.(No success as I have a broken back and hip )

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I think that your problem is the culture shock then, please use any local you can befriend to guide you through this new culture, it's vital that you understand the new rules and norms around you to fit in as quickly as possible.

Your height and weight are fine, my genetics are similar as yours. Girls are okay with that. You're just the slim type, not a problem. Lots of girls will ignore that.

[slatyb]

Stop looking at women in the street and meet some of them.

[Abbycado]

Are you anon irl too?

[Asker]

Anon? What does that mean?