I am from the us, California more precisely and I just don’t have a strong attraction towards any one background of woman. I’ve found women attractive in every race. I am white- Jewish and race just isn’t something I consider looking for a girlfriend to spend my life with and experience young love with, it’s more is she pretty to me… but all pretty girls have rejected me anyway. Is it weird I don’t have a preference?
No, it's not. Most people are tribalistic and xenophobic by nature, especially white men; no offense to them but it's true; in 2022, white men are the least likely to date outside their race. And the ones least likely to be sought after outside their race are black women; mostly only black men will date them.
Most people have a strong racial preference and rarely date certain ethnicities. Something like 60-65%.
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No, it’s not weird. I would not be too worried about it. Since you have no preference when it comes to your partner’s ethnicity, it gives you more options in terms of dating and you will be exposed to more cultures, which I consider a good thing.
I’m the same as you. I have no racial preference when it comes to finding someone attractive. I have seen good looking people of all ethnicities, so I value personality more rather than ethnicity. I love learning about new cultures and their traditions, so I would be thrilled to date someone who is of a different culture than mine.
At the end of the day, your partner’s race should not matter, but the love you have for one another.
In the U. S it's common enough especially if you grew up around other ethnicities.. Around the world? Nah, some most countries are homogeneous.. And like MCheetah said humans are tribalist by nature..
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It is for me, beauty is beauty. I don't ask what their ethnicity is. I don't really give a shit. People or people to me. I don't need to know where you came from. If I like you I like you
I don't think that it common, most people have an ethnic preferences, many don't admit it.
Quite common, I reckon. Some people would find only a certain ethnicity attractive, but how many are like that? Not weird at all to have no preference. I find Asian women quite attractive, but Noura from Syria is the only one I’m interested in.
I don't know that it's "common" but it's definitely a better situation to be in than being hyper selective.
Most people like lighter skin, colored eyes, etc. Doesn’t mean they don’t find darker skin attractive but it’s just MORE attractive.
Not weird at all. Most ethnicities have good and bad points.
I'm attracted to men of all ethnicities 🥰.
No people usually don't like at least one
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For Americans? Yes
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