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Women, how do you feel about shy guys with very masculine bodies?

I am a reserved guy who's humble and well meaning. I've never thought of myself especially highly, and I always noticed I was a bit different. Over the past three years I started to get a lot of attention in public; women...
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I am a reserved guy who's humble and well meaning. I've never thought of myself especially highly, and I always noticed I was a bit different. Over the past three years I started to Show More
Encouraging: Safe to approach directly
Attractive: Comfortable to orbit around
Confusing: I thought he'd be a player
Upsetting: Why isn't he approaching me!
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Why does Tina Knowles identify as Black despite her ambiguous appearance?

she's always in interviews doing the most always whining about racism yet she could have easily passed herself off as a different nationality. thats one thing i noticed about the Americans that the most ambiguous looking...
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What’s something about yourself that quietly makes you feel ‘not enough’ and why does it still hold that much power over you?

Everyone carries something they’re not fully comfortable with, sometimes visible, sometimes only they notice. It could be your appearance, the way you speak, your personality, your past, or even where you are in life....
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How can I reassure my insecure long-distance boyfriend that I only want him?

My long distance boyfriend recently expressed that he is worried that I will find someone closer to me. He said that he wants to be with me forever, but understands if I don’t want to wait on him to move to my city. He...
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Should be careful in this situation with this man who looks identical to another man I know and don't like, or should I assume it's coincidental?

I got recently approached by a man who I'll call *Marco (not his real name). He was sort of cute and we had a good chat, then he requested that we chat outside the dating site, on social media. After talking for a while,...
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Do Christian miracle studies suggest blessings come when we stop seeking them?

They did a study of Christians who received miracles from God in their health and usually, the ones who received healing had not been looking for healing, they were just trying to build their connection with God. I notice...
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Why do people stare and laugh at you in public?

[Excuse my grammar] The only possibility is prejudice considering is brown and I am in a predominantly white town. I noticed a habit all my life since I was old enough to be on my own of people staring and making fun of...
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Does it seem like women have problem accepting critique of their looks while dishing out it to men?

Have you noticed that women often like to give unsolicited opinions on the way men look, specifically regarding men who are fashion conscious and try for a certain style. "I don't like the hair, the shorts shouldn't go...
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Is the gentle Latina mother now a new trend; I actually fit that?

My mother was soft with me for a Latina too. Though not so much with my younger brother. Then again, he was an unplanned pregnancy and my father wasn't very supportive towards her. That affected her mentally. The only...
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How Can I Be Seen as Attractive in Some Situations, but Ignored in Others — Especially at Work?

I’ve noticed a confusing pattern in my social interactions. On one hand, I regularly receive clear signals that I’m considered attractive. Women sometimes approach me first, ask for my number, or compliment my appearance,...
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Have you ever noticed the weird glazed look in the eyes of most Evangelical Christians?

I can pick up on it almost instantly. It's creepy as hell when beliefs start to manifest in an entire group of people's outward appearance. Personally I think it's the thousand yard stare that's a signature of a cult....
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Why does my friend act different in front of his friends?

We've known each other for 4 months and he's a genuinely kind and serious type of man. He's very warm with me in person, he initiates conversations and talks a lot to me. He has been there for me in my tough times and...
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Have you ever feel less worthy when you see people less attractive than you able to get boyfriends/girlfriends but for some reason you couldn’t?

I’ve seen types of girls getting boyfriends. They can be less attractive than me regardless of appearances, their body sizes, their skin conditions or maybe they have more body hair than me. For the longest time I thought...
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Should a girl tell her friends/boyfriend/husband she’s “autistic”?

Hi! I’m wondering about something personal and would love some honest opinions. I’ve been diagnosed with autism, but I’m not disabled. I can be a bit unusual, people often laugh when I talk, even though I’m not making...
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What is your first impression?

I recently turned 47. I truly cannot believe I am almost 50. I currently joke that I am almost eligible for senior discounts or AARP eligible... I know I have some time and AARP can be used at different ages but this is...
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Guys, Why are men obsessed with Latinas and Asians?

It feels like men obsess over one of these. Is it their appearance? There’s other ethnicities that are also attractive. I can see siren eyes might be a reason. I notice Latinas are specifically sexualized more. Are men...
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What non-physical traits attracted you to someone before you even spoke?

What non-physical traits attracted you to someone before you even spoke? I'm curious about those moments when you notice someone and feel drawn to them before any conversation happens. I'm talking about the things...
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Should I ask my coworker why does he stare at me?

I have joined this job a few weeks ago. It was their mass joining session and 3-4 of us joined as freshers. I've met this coworker here (he's also a fresher) and he seems to be a decent person. We have had some...
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Are my friends toxic?

I'm actually trying to validate my opinions. We have newly started our classes and here I have met a group of girls. They're local, I have come from quite some distance since this institution is known to be very good....
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