Why do people stare and laugh at you in public?

[Anonymous]

[Excuse my grammar] The only possibility is prejudice considering is brown and I am in a predominantly white town. I noticed a habit all my life since I was old enough to be on my own of people staring and making fun of me I need to know if it's deeper. It's not paranoia people love to throw that word around like its candy. I don't know if it's because I look young for my age 18 instead of my actual age or if it's because my hair is blonde and my skin is brown. I even complimented on my hair so I know I don't look crazy like dark skin with blonde hair.

Ever since I started wearing my hair blonde or ginger red I attracted negative attention. It makes no sense because since I straightened my hair people were telling me I was pretty and I got male attention that wasn't negative but I'm confused why a group of guys yesterday who were Caucasian decided to pick me out of everyone start laughing and saying I was ugly. I been told I look like a model and on guy felt like he wasn't good enough for me because he said I look so good. I don't know if Texas is a prejudice state but I do no there are almost no girls my color around here it's majority Caucasian and very few Hispanic girls. People also stare like crazy out here I didn't know how bad it was until I came here. i still don't understand why I didn't get all this negative attention when I had my natural hair color I'm considering just dyeing my hair a dark color again. I heard a girl say people find anything bl ck women do to be a problem. We aren't allowed to do anything without being made fun of but yet every other race of women can steal our hair and culture. Is it because I look like a teenager and since I'm going places alone and done have a car they see me all the time and think it's funny to make fun of me. This is not like before where people thought I was homeless I literally work next to the coffee shop everyday and out of all the days a group of guys decided to pick at my appearance. It's always men doing

[DonaldDarko]

You're footing the blame for a lot of bad actors. All the videos of fat black women fighting in McDonalds 13:50 crime stats, BLM. A lot of it is stuff communists have said on your behalf, they're not your friends despite what they say. They goad white people constantly, if white person has dread locks it's "cultural appropriation" When black women straiten their hair and bleach it blond it's the exact same thing, some white people notice this and see it as hypocrisy. Then there are things like dancing around singing shoot the Boer, kill the Boer and making machine gun noises. Then making TV shows about Vikings and some of the supposed Vikings are black but white people are supposed to cheer for that. In the past white people just played along, a lot still do but some of them started noticing these things and looking for revenge. It's not a good situation and I wouldn't have made fun of you but a lot would. Read 4 chan /pol/ . You'll get a feel for what's going on. There are now dark knots of such men all over the place. Check out crusaders. gg if you want to see what you encountered and understand the mentality. Hopefully it goes away but we both know human nature, it probably get's worse from here.

[permanentem]

i'm a 6'3" White male with blue-green eyes and large muscles in a predominately White town and people snicker all the time around me to. So What's your excuse going to be now If racism, gender, height, fitness, eye color, etc. can't explain people's behavior of snickering... In my case I assume they are giggling at my deep voice because it's uncommonly deep and it's probably not what they expect. Like woah that guy's voice is really deep that's not what I expected... It's nervousness laughter I suppose, but I don't mind it. Not everything is about your inferiority complex.

[permanentem]

For many people laughter is a coping mechanism for being uncomfortable, anxious, or overwhelmed. So if you haven't done anything to them, there's no reason to assume they are processing negative emotions toward you and mocking you, it's more likely that they are just insecure, anxious, overwhelmed and dealing with their own internal social anxiety.

[midnightmoon05]

It’s in your head. Get it check out.

i have green ears and black teeth. I don’t care if they stare/laugh… I am doing great!! Because I focus on my life and things I need to accomplished…

You will be happier.

[yeahimadude]

Im sorry to hear that happen to you. Based on my experience its usually because they either find something about you looks funny or different or ugly than what they are used to seeing, or in some rare cases it can be someone literally admiring what they are seeing.
I read your details im also from the south and im also black, in this small arkansas town its a roughly 50/50 white to black ratio. Likewise with any town thats a majority white or majority black population, they are used to only seeing one race, so they would be bound to stare at someone thats different than what they are used to seeing. But yes prejudiceness is still apparent in some people, but frankly from my experience being laughed at because some people find you ugly can really come from anyone of any race, can't tell you how many times I been laughed at, or given a weird look by people that are black like me from school and public. Yeah it especially happens more often when the person is with a group doing it.

[David318578]

The only explanation is because your a Troll

[msc545]

There might be something about your appearance. That's unusual. Why don't you post a picture on here and we will take a look and see.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I think you might just be paranoid

[FunkyMonkee]

It's what immature asshole do.

[loveyouoak]

I don't think anyone's staring at me and laughing.

[NicholasofAustralia]

Ditto 😂😂 this ain't no movie with the Janitor laughing from Austin Powers Goldmember

[noohair]

Come to Florida, I will welcome you here.

[jahaims]

You're mentally ill

[beefcakebradybatson]

I'm black !!!

[Revyy]

They are jealous