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I want a girl that likes me for me. So I pay for the first 5 dates then split 50/50. In my case with my ex, we setup a joint bank account and put equal money inside. She agreed to this.

Then when we were about to breakup suddenly, you didn’t make me feel special. She knew I’m not looking for a gold digger and a girl that likes me for me. Especially as she knew about my background before meeting me!!

I make double her, and come from a wealthy background. I do go after pretty girls and she did say she’s used to being provided for.

Is there anything wrong with what I did?

If she actually liked me she would stick it out right? Not to mention I was good to her, consistent and caring/sensitive!

For this, i want both sides to be brutally honest, so I will, too. I'm an ex alcoholic who had significant emotional issues for years that was caused by me having a bad, negative attitude. That out of the way, I wonder where the disconnect occurrs with men not sharing their emotions with women. Such as what I just did, a hardship of addiction caused by my own bad, irresponsible decisions, fault of nobody except myself, but this is vulnerability to let it go. Maybe one of you guys lost someone you cared about, someone moved away and you miss them, you feel stuck, you want to travel, and you think nobody cares about your happiness, so you suck it up and keep working. Men, is this what you're doing? Are you keeping everything that hurts you inside because you think nobody cares and will see you as weak? Ladies, if a man is doing this, perhaps a man you love is keeping his tears in, should he continue? Would you care if he sat down and told you? Guys, if you're hiding, press "yes". Ladies, if you think men, honest to God, would you see a man as less if he told you about his plight? If you answer yes, then hit "yes", to say men should keep these emotions to themselves