Would my ex (now talking stage) be mad about me and another guy?

[Anonymous]

so my ex and i are talking again and i lied about being experienced.. and my guy friend and i who are pretty close would say sexual stuff towards eachother but i only meant it as a joking way but he was very serious, and we had sent to eachother too. i said that i would suck his dick one day but this was all before my ex and i started talking again. And he had told me he loved me and all this. but i know if i gave my homeboy head there’s a possibility that he would tell people and my ex would find out. but he said if my ex and i do date again he won’t ever talk to me again and we won’t be friends anymore. so do i give him head then lock in with my ex or do i just stick with my ex?

[Simslover92]

I'm confused. You want to be with your ex again or you want the guy who is your friend who you want to suck off?

If you want to be with your ex again then I wouldn't go through with sucking off the other guy. He doesn't even sound like a good friend to want you to do that without making it a relationship first.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

It depends on where he stands emotionally.

If he still has feelings or expectations, he’ll probably feel something maybe not “mad,” but bothered.

If he’s truly moved on, he won’t.

Either way, I’m not here to manage anyone’s hidden emotions.

I stay clear about my boundaries and let people show me where they actually are.

[beenherebefore]

You shouldn't care about what your ex thinks. He's an ex for a reason.

[Asker]

but we’re in a talking stage 😭 and i like him

[slatyb]

Stop wasting time with your ex.

[In_Trance]

Stop interacting with your ex

[Asker]

but we’re talking about getting back together 💔

[In_Trance]

That's even worse.
It didn't work the first time I don't know why on Earth you think it would work a second time

[Asker]

because we were young and silly but now we’re older and we know what we want. but i feel like he’s using me because we’re only a couple weeks into chatting again and he wants to crack. so I don't know if that’s me overthinking it and that’s normal or idkk

[In_Trance]

Smh... Point proven

[Anonymous]

Why are you talking to your ex still?