Does my ex have a right to act like a jealous lunatic that I’m talking to other guys?

[sunflowersoul1996]

My ex & I were trying to remain friends & keep in touch. He’s all the way out in California at Bible college I’m in New Jersey. Life just took us in 2 directions we’ve broken up because of it. I was devastated at first I didn’t want things to be this way we were together 4 years but little by little I’ve been getting over it. He started acting very distant kept saying he was busy but my gut was telling me he was spending time with another girl. So I simply asked him then I would back off & not contact him anymore. I wasn’t asking out of jealousy I wanted the truth. These texts show the conversation. He said he was but then he claims he only said that to see if I was. Which is messed up to play me like that. I’m not sure what to believe. If he really did meet someone or if this was just some kind of game either way I think the way he’s acting is wrong. If he did meet someone then to get mad at me he’s a hypocrite and if he didn’t to play a game and make me think he is when I was asking cause I was upset is wrong. He wasn’t expecting my response p I’ve been talking to 2 other guys. He keeps calling me a whore acting like I cheated on him but we aren’t together. He keeps accusing me of having sex with them but I truly haven’t. All I’ve done is talk on the phone I want an emotional connection to someone. I like one guy more then the other but I was giving them both a chance to see which one might be better for me. Does that make me a tramp? I thought that’s what single people did? My ex & I thought of maybe getting back together in the future but one week he loves me, the next week he’s mean to me & turns on me. I’m sick of highs & lows it was like this while we were together I want someone stable. He has rage fits. Am I at fault for talking to other guys? Honestly both guys treat me better then him & I feel happy when I talk to them. More times then not I feel down when I talk to my ex he doesn’t lift me he’s toxic I’ve finally been realizing that I deserve better

[Helotome]

I lost it when you called you a whore. I can't believe you still deal with that shit? That isn't love ! I would been done with him already since he end the relationship and still judging you? Move on! Block his ass and give the other guy a chance! Drop his shit to him too. Be face that may be lunatic ass that you handling with.

[Trevelyan88]

You ex is obviously a psycho, cut all contact...

As to the 2 guys you are talking to... Cut off the guy you aren't into, not really fair to lead him on.

[AviatorTom]

If he's your ex, he has no right to anything concerning you... that's what EX means.

[DaveJord]

Who cares about your ex, why should you care what he thinks or says. He is your ex just ignore him and move on. If your fixated on it then your letting him win, so stop the mind fuck and put this guy in the review.

[CuriousMufuxka]

When it's over.. It's over! Clean break, no friendship. Some can pull it off most can't.

[Greenteaisgreen]

He got the streets, gurl let him gooooooooooo run as fast as I can to the middle of nowhere 🏃🏽‍♀️

[slatyb]

Why are you still in contact with him?

[sunflowersoul1996]

Because we still have feelings for each other and we didn’t want to break up. Life keeps separating us. I think it’s God saying we’re not meant to be together but it doesn’t mean we don’t still love each other. I love him but he also has a lot of toxic qualities so my heart wants it to work but my head realizes I deserve better that’s why I’ve been talking to other people

[slatyb]

You know that the rational decision is to get him out of your life so you can meet someone capable of giving love. If you are afraid to do that, consider getting some counseling. How was your home life growing up?

[JosyJosy]

No. It's an EX.

[clemdenim]

nope