Why would an ex be angry I’m with someone else?

[Anonymous]

Let’s say to put a long story short…. She breaks up with me because evidently she doesn’t think I’m good enough for her and she doesn’t like some stuff about me. Even though I have been trying to improve. She won’t help me other then nagging me.

So. She broke it off. So…. I got a new girlfriend. Whose much better then her. We made it official on social media and she calls me crying telling me “how could you do this to me” I said we’re not even together “yeah but I thought you would change” WTF is wrong with her?

The first time she did this. I did go back to her. But my new girl is so much better. She loves me. She helps me grow as a person and not nagging me about it. She doesn’t feel entitled or demand stuff form me and always returns the favors.

She gets me gifts and lots of affection. It used to just be me who did that.

Is she jealous? Why does she think I’m bad for moving on? When SHE broke it off.

[Finchie40]

Because most girl’s are selfish and only really think about themselves , Most girls live with the grass is greener on the other side spectrum she probably broke it off with you because she was interested in someone else that’s why she was bitching and nagging at you , she was bitching and nagging at you to give herself an excuse for her actions while she was weighing her options when she realized that other guy just wanted to bang her and nothing more and saw that you moved on made her kick herself in the ass for being a selfish person , You did the right thing , don’t give that bitch another chance

[Asker]

Maybe. But not most women. My new gal isn’t like that. She’s very respectful sweet and has strong romantic passion with also high morals

[Finchie40]

Exactly that’s why you got a new girl, one that knows how to value a relationship , your ex didn’t , if she valued you , you wouldn’t be with a new girl

[Chris_u006]

Because the ex wants you to be alone and miserable obviously.

According to your ex you should change everything about yourself for her, according to her, there is no other for you than her.

An block everywhere and if she does not stop, contact the authorities and get a restraining order and contact ban.

Reeks of narcissism issues with the ex.

I was only objectively honest from what I read and gave suggestions on what one can do about it, I meant no harm to anyone, you just need put up boundaries sometimes, for your own good and safety.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s not gonna happen. Maybe she is by how she’s acting. I hope she finds someone more compatible for her

[Chris_u006]

I genuinely hope so to, let's think positive and nice things about all of us lovely humanbeings now shall we?😇🙏❤

[NZGirl07]

It's a weird thing but is a normal occurance. I broke up with my ex boyfriend who agreed me weren't compatible or working out, but when I got a new boyfriend he messaged me wanting to be friends again and then blocked me when I didn't reply. I think they know they don't work with you but are still jealous you have moved on, since they still have some memories and feelings. It's just best to block her and move on. All it is is past drama, there is no use to you. I'm glad you found a great new partner. Focus on her.

[Asker]

True. It’s unfortunate. Ex partners can turn into stalkers sometimes. Obviously not everyone acts this way.

But she’s just jealous I found someone better then herself maybe who I’m actually happy with.

[tonamimargaux]

Aye, block her, please. Focus on who’s helping you grow as a person.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Kiaros21]

here's my take. I think she's mad that someone has accepted you for the person you are. Also the fact that she probably think nagging you was going to change you and she maybe realized that it only drove you away. And now you're happy with someone else. I would've be mad too lol😂😂

[Asker]

Awwwww thank you! You’re right. Plus she’s probably jealous I found someone better then herself

[SnowedIn]

Why? First, they still wanted you. Second, they're jealous. Third, she bluffed, you called the bluff and, oops.

[Asker]

I don’t care. If someone don’t want me I move on. It hurt not gonna lie. She called me and said maybe we could try again I told her. No. That I needed time to think about it

This was when I started dating her. She began questioning me about it and I told her to leave me alone.

Once I posted we were official… She acts like I cheated. We aren’t together anymore

[fembotnpc777]

This happens every single time and ex sees someone date a new person. I hope that answers your question.

[Asker]

Why would she be angry? Not with her anymore. Does she want me to be alone forever? Probably yeah.

She broke it off with me though. Not like I left her for her

[Asker]

Irs a little confusing. But okay

[Asker]

You just gotta take what you can get on this site

[fembotnpc777]

"Why would she be angry?"
Because she's emotional about you dating someone else. People are emotional creatures.

[Asker]

I just want her to leave me alone. Why would she break up then? If she’s possessive. Why would she break it off?’

Makes zero sense. Most people who break up don’t want the person anymore.

[dudeinohio]

Some women are crazy and make no sense.

[fembotnpc777]

You sound like a girl!

[Asker]

@dudeinohio some women are bur so are some men

[Asker]

How’s that? My gosh I’m not trying to be rude here but you don’t make any sense and I’m definitely not a girl

[dudeinohio]

Ignore the ex. Block her. She obviously has serious behavioral issues.

Some women expect guys to change for them. This is a totally wrong attitude.

It's great you have a new girlfriend.

[Asker]

You’re right. Probably should

[dudeinohio]

You definitely should. Communications with an ex can potentially cause problems with your new relationship.

[AdithyaR]

Some people are narcissistic and believe they're the best thing that could happen to someone. So when they see their exes happy with a new person they feel offended and act out like a kid who lost their favourite toy.

[Anonymous]

If you are happy, don't even think about it. Just live and enjoy your new relationship. Block her

[Asker]

You’re right. She isn’t worth a spot in my brain if she harasses me it can go to the police

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't know guys go to the police on women. I only knew of one guy, but he isn't a real man! So, but, I never knew that was a thing. Hmmm 🤔 makes me wonder!

[Asker]

Because sexual assault is sexual assault. Predator.

[Asker]

Lol. Some people have morals and standards. What if she was ugly as hell? What if I have dignity and self respect.

Maybe you let any dude touch you. Whatever.

[Asker]

WHOOPS!!!’ I am so sorry. LMFAO 🤣. I thought that this was another post. It was a woman who was defending touching men. Irs. Along story.

Yes if someone’s harassing or stalking someone. It’s a crime and it can go both ways.

Not sure what he isn’t a “real man” though.

[Asker]

Put it this way. My new girlfriend can absolutely fuck a dude up whose bigger them her. She wouldn’t wanna come messing with either one of us.

I smacked the shit out of a woman who was messing with her and my girlfriend defended me and got her arrested.

Her mom and dad are both lawyers too who said if she gives more serious trouble they would help me out and my girlfriends a law student herself. She’s also a part time cop (she’s volunteer but has the same powers as any other cop. She graduated the academy)

[Asker]

She was also 2 years full time army and was part time military (she got out because of vaccine mandates)

She’s also a model very gorgeous and makes a lot of money doing that (nothing nude).

She’s also very involved in church. My ex and I were not really on the same page as religion.

She had a few more fast food service jobs and majoring in some arts program.

She’s a nice enough person. But she wasn’t really a good girlfriend

[Opinion Owner]

You put in your post that an ex girlfriend broke up with you! You moved on and she called crying. And you mean to tell me, if she does it again, you will call the cops? Nah, real men don't do that dawg. Soft ass!

[Asker]

😂. I mean if I block her and she harasses me. Someone has to be seriously harassing me to call the cops.

But you don’t seem like a good person.

[Asker]

You seem to be someone who has a problem with men and tell men how they should be. Even though you aren’t one.

Hey. There are men who do that to women too. But

[Opinion Owner]

I've had one bad experience with one ass hole in my entire life and you sound like him. Men don't call the cops because an ex text them dawg

[FilmGuy93]

Of course she's jealous. It's just a weird thing that happens where the person knows the relationship was bad, but they haven't moved on yet, and seeing you move on means that a door is closing that they aren't ready to close yet.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Only if they haven't moved on.

[ZenJen444]

Why do you care?

[Asker]

Because she’s acting like I cheated on her. Why does she care? I’m not with her and she broke it off.

Why is she like this?

[Asker]

Wouldn’t you care? If you had a boyfriend who breaks up with you. Then you get someone better. And he calls you crying.

What do you mean why do I dare? What would be going through your mind? Unless you’re the kind to do this and then why would you do that?

Why would she broke up if she wanted me?

[Asker]

She had her chance.

[ZenJen444]

You're in a relationship move on

[Asker]

I have….. but she’s the one who hasn’t. She acts like I cheated on her and I wished she would just go away.

Please read the question. I have long moved on trust me. With my new girl she treats me better then she never did. Not even saying she’s a bad person.

But now I’m starting to wonder. Because she won’t go away.

[ZenJen444]

Block her duh.

[Asker]

She is. But you seem like the type. Because you’re so defensive

[ZenJen444]

I'm trying to save you from being dumped from your current girlfriend. Do the right thing by respecting your current relationship