All Questions

Would any early 20s girls date a 28-30 year old

Or would that be too big of an age gap for them? I've recently had dates and flings with girls older than me and I'm 28. I'm tired of dating older women for now, the reason it worked out with them was because they were...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Do girls care that guys wear cups in sports?

I don't want the girls to think I'm a wimp for wearing one in baseball

cvb19952

Xper 3 Age: 31

Does the location of your first kiss matter?

I've never kissed a girl before, but my new girlfriend is pretty experienced. She knows I've never kissed anyone and she wants my first kiss to be special. There's this park around half an hour away from where I live...

Anonymous

(30-35)

"I am your friend, but you are not mine."?

Can this occur? Does this make sense? I am confounded by the thought but the more I think about it the more it makes sense. Is it possible that you confide a person but they do not confide in you? That they are a bastion...

blackkid2

Xper 3 Age: 38

How will a shy girl act around her crush?

How will a shy girl act around her crush ? from Distance and few feet away\upclose. i think a, dealing with a semi-shy girl ... if there is some think like that.

confusedtothecore

Xper 4 Age: 35

What does it mean when my crush's friends joke about us dating when he's not here

I was hanging out with with my brother's friends last night(my brother is 6 years older than me). I liked one of his friends for a few years but he was deployed to Afghanistan 6 months ago. I somewhat told him I liked him...

puplecard

Xper 6 Age: 30

Girls, if the guy doesn't ask you out quickly, do you lose interest & stop liking him?

I have noticed that girls will sometimes just stop talking to me and stop flirting out of nowhere. My friends who are girls have said that if a girl likes a guy she will lose interest and stop liking him if he doesn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have a crush on a guy that is around 10 years older then me!

I have this crush on this guy. I am 33 and he is mid 40's. This does not usually happen! I am usually attracted to guys more my age. I have been noticing he has been giving me compliments like "hello gorgeous" and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

She doesn't look into my eyes when we talk

Last week one of my friends told me that a girl from my had been talking a lot about me to her friends. The girl was pretty, intelligent, funny so I decided to start talking with her, getting her number, etc. So after...

Porto

Xper 5 Age: 38

Does my friend have a secret lesbian crush on me?

I have been friends with her for about three years. She's always gotten attached to people super easily and been overprotective but Nothing too bad. She's always been fine when I am just hooking up with a guy, but always...

love_life1987

Xper 6 Age: 38

Rock climbing for a first date?

So I met this girl online and want to ask her out on a date. She is a nutritionist/ physical fitness coach and on her profile it says she likes to rock climb. Everywhere I read it says the first "meet" should be coffee or...

aeroruler

Xper 6 Age: 38

How can I let him regret letting me go..?

I've been talking with this guy for about two months, we were hitting it off quite nicely (at least that's what I thought) I developed real strong feelings for him, more than any other guy I ever talked to and I don't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long should I wait?

I met this great guy online 7 weeks ago and we hit it off immediately. I am 45 and he is almost 43. He has been courting me since the beginning like a real gentleman. But then by our third date, there still had been no...

Orchidgirl68

Xper 5 Age: 58

Why do girls like compression shorts so much on a guy?

As suggested by my girlfriend, I started to wear my track and field compression shorts under a shorter pair of normal Nike shorts outside track meets as well. She said they look sexy on me. At first I was a bit uncertain...

Ken177

Xper 6 Age: 31

How to get a guy to open up to you

Guys are harder to get to know like their deep thought and feelings I am stuck and would like to know how to get them to open up

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex boyfriend randomly texts me and doesn't reply back.

Is he just trying to make his ego big or what? He'll say hey what's up? Like we actually had a conversation 2 weeks ago through text and then after that, he would text me hey every other day. I'd say hey back but he'd...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When a guy sees you as a little sister

I don't have a crush on him or anything but I'm curious to what this means. I was talking about my problem an said if I had an older brother he could fix my problem then he replied saying that I do and it's him. What does...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it normal for a guy to be super clingy after knowing you for a few days?

Alright, this is another "too fast too serious" type of situation. I'm 24 and looking for serious anyways but I feel like he is pushing too much. We met about a week ago and he asked if we could hang out and I said yes....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

My boyfriend lied about moving states away...

Due to some family issues and major trust issues, my boyfriend decided to "test" our relationship and pretended that he lived states away from me for 8 months, "flying" home a couple of weekends a month. He has always...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Begging for more while making out, is it normal?

I am a virgin. My boyfriend said that we could wait till I feel ready, and he told me that I could take as much time as I want. Two days ago he came over to my place, he was a little drunk and we made out. Things get...

atlantis91

Xper 6 Age: 34

No kiss on the second date from a shy guy?

I just back from a second date. I know this man is shy...but we spent a wonderful evening watching movies at his place. We sat next to each other, touched...but he never made the move to put his arm around me. I suppose I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Shopping & Gifts

My boyfriend got me a one month anniversary gift... What do I do?

Okay so my boyfriend got me a love necklace and another with my initial on it...I found it he was going to try to engrave one necklace saying I Love (my initial name) and well I was going to get him something (a New...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, do you prefer strength or muscles?

Do girls prefer extremely strong and fit body or kind of strong and jacked. Basically a fit/average looking guy that can lift huge weights vs a muscular guy who is not really strong for his size. For example: 5'8''...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I assume? We haven't talked in a week

So, like in my last question. I met a guy on a non-dating website. We have been talking since early January, so 5 months. We Skype, instant message and e-mail. We have not talked on the phone. We had plans to meet in...

catholicgirl81

Xper 5 Age: 45

Fashion & Beauty

Do you think it's slutty for a girl to show off their belly?

I'm just curious. I were a crop top with some skinny jeans. I had a guy tell em I look sexier and kept looking at my belly area... lol makes me wonder if I really showed that much skin. My crop top was right below my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did Ex unblock me on Whatsapp?

He went into no contact after telling me 'I don't know how I feel about you anymore', two weeks ago. I text him on Day 1, Day 2. No reply. Day 9 I text again saying his silent treatment was ridiculous but I erasing any...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy has my number but hasn't texted me?

I met this guy at a party but he looked more interested in my prettier friend so I dismissed him & thought him a good-looking guy but myself not being good enough for him. I then saw him about 2 or 3 weeks later at a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

Why are horses considered feminine animals?

Just curious. For centuries, horses were primarily ridden by men who worked cattle. But nowadays, horses are viewed as a primarily female animal. I'm not speaking just about showing them, as I can understand why a man...

Prettygurl12

Master Age: 32

Relationships

Is there such a thing as bad luck in love?

I think I have bad luck in love. By this I mean I don´t meet guys who like me, ever, so I never had a boyfriend or anything. I have good looks, I don´t have mental issues and there´s nothing weird or wrong about me....

Anonymous

(36-45)

She thought I forgot about her?

So I went out with this chick once, everything went great she was more forward than me but it was all good we had a blast. We were gonna go out again on Monday but I had some family issues pop up so I rescheduled for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why is the cat-eye so popular?

link Why do girls like to flick the eyeliner at the outer corner of their eyes to create a cat-eye look? What is so attractive about it? Guys, do you find them sexy? I naturally have catlike eyes, meaning the outer...

Daph81

Guru Age: 38

Why does she want my attention even though she rejected me?

Rejection-wise, it was pretty brutal. I got the handshake at the end of a date with her. Since we're classmates and see each other fairly regularly, I was expecting a hug. Anyway, the first day after the date, I didn't...

Anonymous

(36-45)