I was thinking about some advice I received from my female friends that you can initiate or flirt with a guy at first, but then it is up to them to continue contacting the girl. Honestly, playing hard to get, in my experience, can scare off guys if it is overdone, especially if the girl is cute. How can a girl communicate interest without seeming uninterested? Is there a way to not scare guys off? Guys I talk to can never tell what my level of interest is, they always get mixed signals from me.
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immature, my ass. its smart. don't nobody respect some easy to get girl that every guy has already had. don't be thirsty and you will see when a man is really into you. do you want a guy who is lukewarm about you or do you want a guy who is enthusiastic about you? "playing hard to get" as they put it, will allow men to reveal their thoughts about you based on their actions.
I think phtg has a bad rap because of the PLAYING word in it. its seen as playing games and being mean to a man for some reason? I don't know but you never wanna be chasing after a guy like ms piggy does Kermit in the muppets. didn't gonzo really like her but she chose to chase Kermit? Kermit didn't like piggy like that but if she quit running after him so much she would see that.
if a guy gets "scared off" he ain't feeling you. a lot of guys on this site will pretend as if men are ignoramouses and retards and have no idea when a woman is interested in them. I call bs. guys in the real world can tell when you really like a guy bc you just can't hide it. and when he really likes you he will make an effort to be around you. but if you throw yourself at a man and don't let him lead, then yeah he might use you for the time being bc its better to have mediocre pussy then none at all, but you won't get to see his true level of interest in the beginning3
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