I gave my ex a second chance and he hurt me again - should I ignore him or get revenge?

My ex BF, who I helped through a depression and fought to get him a job at the company I work for when he lost his job, coldly dumped me out of the blue ( due to his depression apparantly but I don't know) Two weeks later, he was contacting me and wanting to hang out, coming on strong. He invited me to his party - I went but lots of guys were hitting on me and he wasn't happy. Next day he spitefully cxld our plans to hang out and said he'll be in touch. I am livid at the way he has treated me! Should I ignore him, send him a scathing email or pull the plug on his job (my good male friend owns the company we work for). I know that sounds harsh but you have no idea what a douche this guy is...

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  • I think you should just ignore him. Sounds like you are a good person due to the fact that you helped him get a job. I know it may sound really entertaining to get him fired or send him a scathing email but I say screw him and let things play out on their own. I'm assuming your are a scorpio your screen name and I know it's in your nature to want to make him pay. Try to cool off before you do anything. Me, personally I don't believe in being vengeful - though it does not mean I have not/do not entertain the thought of it sometimes. Just try to treat others how you would like to be treated and in this case just ignore him. Just because he is a douche doesn't mean you have to be.

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What Guys Said 4

  • This guy seems a little unstable. I don't think revenge is a good idea for your safety rather than his ego. Also If you get this male friend of yours to fire him and his lawyer ever sees this message you put on here he might have grounds for an unlawful termination suit. I advise you to just to write him a note telling him you can't take it anymore and you want to end it.

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  • The guy was insecure, and not worth dealing with anymore.

    Best type of revenge is to continue on with your life happy!

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  • While he is acting like an ass, the best revenge is living your life happy and successful without him. Learn what you want/need from this and live your life following it, leaving him as nothing but a part of your past.

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  • Move on from ex's. You deserve better

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  • Move on. You'll just seem desperate. If he hurt you again after you gave him a chance, he obviously doesn't care about you and "getting revenge" won't do a thing, you'll still be hurt. Success is the best revenge imo.

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