What did he do?
I honestly don’t think you should. Once he broke your trust once, what makes you think he won’t do it again? You never forgave him, so that seems like it’s big.
Also, how do you know he has changed? How has he changed?
You said you’re afraid of him doing it again, so, don’t let him do it again. Don’t get back together. That’s just my advice, but obviously it is your choice.
I think you need to put up strict boundaries if you do decide to get back together with him. You need to be in control of the relationship, meaning, you need to be the one who speaks up when you don’t like something happening, you need to leave immediately if there’s a red flag, you need to not give any more chances or forgive him if he breaks your trust or pushes your boundaries.
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I didn't vote. He isn't the most important factor in the equation. From the way you worded your post, you still do not feel secure with him. Also, boyfriend girlfriend relationships are bootleg in my opinion. If he proposed marriage would you accept?
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It is good that he has changed and why not acknowledge it AND forgive him. You both probably should go about your individual Business. It sounds like his D- is talking to me... to jump back in with I love you kind of thing...
I wouldn't if I were you. If he changed then he'll have no problem finding a new girlfriend. Why get back with someone who you haven't forgiven yet?
no one really changes they are the same person as before
People never change.
Also, men don't have emotions. Everyone knows this.
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