I ended things by telling him exactly how I felt, that I love him but I can't wait around for him to figure out if he loves me or not or whether he can live without me or not. I told him I was leaving so I could find someone who does know that he loves me. But I left it open and told him that if he finds that he does love me once I leave I'd be open to giving him a second chance but never a third or fourth.
After I broke up with him he didn't seem to care. It took him a month to contact me. He sent me a text asking if we can be friends and asked if I wanted to go see a movie. I told him that we can't be friends because I need to move on because I love him. He didn't say anything and didn't respond to me. Later that day he blocked and deleted me from everything (fb, twitter, instagram). I even tried calling him and found that he blocked my phone number. I was extremely hurt. The past 3 months were very hurtful for me. I've been crying alot. I couldn't believe that this guy I invested so much time and love in hated me that much.
My birthday is tomorrow and yesterday I received a card in the mail from him wishing me a happy birthday. I was really confused and couldn't figure out why he would bother sending it? He has blocked me from everywhere so I can't even say Thank You. I did send him an email yesterday b/c that's the only place I think he didn't block me. All I said in the email was "thanks for the card :)". No response yet.
Do you think he regrets everything? What's the point of sending me a card?
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds like he got bored of you in the end and when you broke it off he went off without a care in the world.
Some people are just like that, i know someone close whos like that.
Also, as a guy, if you said to me, aftr i contactd you a month later for the cinema , that your not gonna go to the film, i wouldve been pissed too but you stood up for yourself, and he deleted you because it was the only way to get revenge.
Listen, you dumped him, you turned down his cinema request, you must see both points.
And since your 2.5 years together, he sent a bday card as a 1st bday without you card so you won't be geting 1 ever again, it was a memorial so to speak.
Move on with your life, dont look back.
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Most Helpful Girl
With The 'Happy Birthday" Card, he May have some pent up Guilt feelings for "Blocking and Deleting You" from his life, being you told him----We can't be friends. And being he even 'Blocked my phone number," he Found it in his heart to Send You--------His Very best.
Being he hasn't Responded to your 24 hour ago "Thanks for the card," he may just be leaving It at that, allowing You And him to "Move on," and being in your Reply, you never added: "I want to be friends," he had Nothing More to say or offer.
Sometimes when a couple breaks up, it doesn't always Mean: "Goodbye, my love." They find they still want to be in each others' lives, Are Missing the kissing, and just want-----Friends with or without benefits. In his case, with your 'EX," "X" Marks the Spot, and he most likely wanted his cake and eat it too now. He May have wanted to do the Friends with benefits factor, as Why he asked for your hand in-----Friendship. And being you shot him down, for as honest as you were in your heart, for Not wanting to accept this 'Proposal,' I believe you handled it well, and even though you've "Been crying alot," I believe in the end you did the right thing to let go, even had a few terms of your own.
His feelings didn't pan out for you, he didn't reciprocate the same feelings for you, even after '2.5 years,' and you're Right-----He doesn't know how he feels, and may never know, no matter if you would reunite tomorrow.
Yes, he may have a 'Few regrets,' but I think being it's your special day 'Tomorrow,' it was the Guilt that made him send This, and perhaps even a slight chance you Might have Reconsidered his Offer of----Friends... And maybe Accepting his gracious offer of------Go see a movie.
But being he didn't get the message he may have been anticipated, you May not get an answer. Instead, A Closure Instead, of This being your Birthday Gift that you Really Are Better of without this Ghost of-----Yesterday.
Happy birthday, sweetie... Many happy returns. xx