Why didn’t he wish me happy birthday?

[Bratz1211]

This guy we I use to speak to everyday and got close to didn’t say happy birthday to me yesterday and I feel down and he doesn’t care. We kinda stopped talking as we had a mini argument well miss understanding. He just ignored me that one day 2 weeks ago due to this miss understanding! However he watched all stories and knew it was my birthday and didn’t say nothing. I did friendzone him kind of but still it hurts. I thought we were closer than that. And why not just block me if you’re completely done.

[DaveJord]

So honestly like you said you friendzoned him. To guys, that's like worse then just breaking up and being done. Its like saying I really like you but won't date you. And he thinks its bullshit, because you were dating, I guess, and one miss understanding and you sideline him. Now your upset he didn't wish you a happy birthday? Come on seriously, maybe you cheated yourself out of a good relationship and need to take some responsibility, step back and reflect on it. Becsuse if you didn't care you would not be upset.

He didn't block you because you didn't block him. He's not interested in being just friends and not going to play into that type of game with a women he wants more with then just being friends. So he's there because its really up to you, and he's respecting your space and your own choices. But friends or not friendships, real and true ones, don't happen on your terms alone. You have to infest in them as well and when you neglect them yourself... well thats on you.

[DaveJord]

he's probably not done with you, but you need to put out an effort. His not wishing you a happy birthday was and indication that still isn't over it either... more like a silent protest if anything. He actually had to care to put out the effort not to post and hope you noticed it.

[DaveJord]

Me and my girl had miss understanding last week as well. She wants this long term committed relationship, which I told her I am totally okay with that. But that means we have to be willing to make changes in order to build toward a long term future together. Thats what committed long term relationships are about. So it went back and forth, so I told her if she just wants to go back to just dating and taking it one weekend at a time then thats fine. But if she really wants what she says she wants then she needs to be willing to have some serious conversations.

It ended with me saying you call me when you decide what type of relationship you want. Because I am willing to accommodate but there things I need and want as well. 7 days no call no contact with her.

This situation of yours sounds like one those types of things. So if you really want a relationship with him, you need to reach out and make contact.

For me and my situation, I am not interested in being just friends. I want to date, and I will eventually contact her, but thats for me to get closure and end it properly like an adult. Unless she picks up the phone and calls me first.

[hafinjun]

Happy belated birthday, sincerely who knows , I would say move on if you feel your being hurt warrants it. I turned 60 a few years ago and he didn't wish me one either and I haven't spoken to him since. No actually my turning 60 passed soley unnoticed, by family, girlfriend, face book splashed it across my home page but that was it. That was a little tough especially when I pointed it out to my lady and her response was less then apologetic. I showed her , when her birthday I sent a bd card with her name on envelope but in her twin sisters name , I don't think I was even friend rated

[Lee1515]

i dot know

but happy birthday to you

xoxoxoxo

[ohsheeT]

Happy birthday Virgo you are one of the cool people in life you've seen you feel things different from most people you bring Beauty enjoyment excitement into everybody's life and what kind of birthday cake did we have because I want a piece


PS
I tried to send you this really hot sexy birthday gift but the mailman told me to get out of the mailboxes and get the f****** stamps off my ass now don't ever get in there again sorry about that I tried maybe next year I'll get away with it

[Sandeeppingping]

I mean you friendzoned him, so that's a logical reaction, he didn't block you, well in different times I'd have said that it's because he's not done with you, but I don't know anymore

[katestar]

Are you talking to me?

[Freedom007]

I guess my first question to you is are you absolutely sure he knew it was your birthday? I mean, guys are notorious for forgetting birthdays, anniversaries, etc.
plus how busy is he?
Either he is kind of a jerk, or my guess, he really just forgot.
Not defending him. But admittedly, in the past I forgot my girlfriend’s birthday one year.
If he apologizes, and you want to stay together with him, I would accept the apology. If he doesn’t apologize, then that’s a different issue.

[Havthrills]

He's probably still mad about the argument. Sounds like he backed off a lot. Sometimes it takes more than 2 weeks for someone to come back around as a friend. Sometimes they don't. I don't know details so I'm going off of speculation.

[Sixgunsound]

So if you friend zoned him, what do you care? Either you’re abandoning any possibility of romance or you aren’t.

[RealMarek]

He’s still pissed about the misunderstanding and being friendzoned. But if you care so much, is he really in the friendzone?

[Zolly99999]

Happy birthday day.. ( I know it's late but I just found out lol)

That is actually quite mean of him. I hope you feel better.. he doesn't deserve your time if he can't get over a little argument.. everybody has then for God sakes.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It sounds like he may be ghosting you a little or I could be wrong I would move on Happy Belated Birthday to you !!! <3 <3

[kellytheman]

Yeah he probably didn't like getting friend zoned and probably wanted more. Also he probably wouldn't care that much anyways if he was being with you to have sex with you.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

My best conjecture is that he doesn’t believe in birthdays. I don’t believe in birthdays, either, but happy belated birthday! Hope Your wishes and dreams come true.

[anton_dee]

U friendzone him n then expect bday wishes? He too has his respect to keep innit? And how does he know that when he wishes you, you will respond positively?

[Jamie05rhs]

Because if he did then you'd get offended and think he was stalking you.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't know but happy belated birthday how old are you now

[Anonymous]

Welcome to my world no one wishes me a happy birthday let alone a card or cake or presents or anything it's just another day to people

[888theGreat]

I feel a block coming on

[Bratz1211]

From me or him?

[Anonymous]

He just forgot.

[katestar]

My guy friend called me on my 26th birthday

[Batmanismydaddy]

He doesn't care

[zagor]

But you never look any older...

[KrakenAttackin]

He's tired of your bullshit.