Do you think he will cheat while he's in the Navy? PLEASE HELP!

[Bureezay]

My boyfriend is leaving for navy boot camp,and well,I'm afraid he will cheat or something.We love each other so much,but we won't see each other for about 7 months.

I was just wondering,when guys can't see there partners for that amount of time,do they get to the point where they just can't take it anymore and they have to go get laid?

Me and him have a very active sex life,so the transition is going to be really difficult for both of us..Please help me guys..do you think he's gonna cheat?

[blueyedgrll]

During bootcamp you really don't have a whole lot to worry about. He will have a tight schedule from 6 am til lights out at 10 pm. He won't have the time nor the place to cheat. When you may want to show concern is after bootcamp and he is sent to his port. He will be there for months at a time and will most likely see you every couple months. If he goes on deployment, his only form of communication with you is via email unless he pays for a calling card. He has a lot of new experiences ahead of him. I really hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it is rare that couples stay together in the navy. He will be meeting so many new people and will be put in and handed opportunities that will not go along with your guys relationship. My parents were both in the navy (they made it through/stayed together because they were often stationed at the same base) and I dated a guy in the navy. You want so bad for everything to be perfect, but there is so much temptation out there and you both are still so young.

[finecute]

If he really loves you, then no he will not cheat. talk to him about your worries and explain your feelings to him. I know it will be hard, but send him pictures, call, text him or write him. I'm not sure how the navy works. but he shouldn't cheat on you if he really loves you

[alex2232]

No, if he truly loves you he wont. Just every now and then send him cute little care packages to show him you're thinking of him. You can even send letters sprayed with your favorite perfume so he thinks of you every day.

[brettb]

No. I'm not trying to dis any of the girls about what they can or can't do, but the navy is pretty much a sausage fest. The navy is resonsible for order on the ships and maintenance of the ships. But the one thing ur going to have to put up with is not seeing him longer than 7 months. My dad was in the navy so he could bring money in for our family and he would be gone for 7-8 months out at sea. I'm not meaning to scare you or anything cause I really admire love, but I'm just telling how it is. Maybe if ur lucky he will be stationed on one of hawaii's bases like my father was.

[alex2232]

See, my dad was in the Navy too, and he was NEVER unfaithful to my mother.

[brettb]

Lol just think about all the jokes bout the navy. What are the boats filled of? ;)

[Manafon]

statistically speaking, you are more likely to cheat than he is.

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