Guys don't work the same way as girls - some guys prefer to tackle their problems alone and will react badly to people trying to help them through it because they feel like these people don't think they can do it, to them getting help emasculates them. It's all a matter of emotional maturity and pride. I don't know him, but what I do know is that only time will tell if he'll come back - give him time to tackle the problems by himself and see what happens after. Regardless of what happens, don't feel like you're at fault. You did what a good girlfriend does, you tried your best to help him go through a tough period. Hopefully he'll appreciate it. If not, then maybe he wasn't the best guy for you after all.
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iam in the same boat stress got the best of my wife and and haven't heard from her in 3 months and iam loyal so hope we both can get back great person we use to know i would at lest want to talk to her one last time if thats how its going to b i have a few questions
The problem isn't that you're good and loyal. The problem is he doesn't want you in his life anymore and doesn't even bother to tell you it's him, not you.
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I won't let "good girls" go if they are hot.
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