Guy dumped me, but still wants to hangout. Why?

[Tallblondie]

-Guy dated me for 1 month
-Kissed me ( nothing else, just pecks)
-Rejected/dumped me saying he doesn't want anything
-Then I told him we could not be friends because obviously there is physical attraction
-Then he comes back a couple days later asking why we can't hangout and why we can't be friends.

Wtf? Why? Guys explain this crap. I just got rejected by him why in the hell does he want to hangout!

[Junlian]

first of all stop hollering, calm the hell down and read between the lines. Your so air headed you kinda see why he took a step back. now guys when they dump and girl and want to hang out he just know he's not ready for you or found happiness somewhere else besides in you. He sees you as a friend while you see him as something more. but he still want to stay in touch.

[Tallblondie]

Obviously I can't put all the information on this site, but after he dumped me he told me he did not want to hangout with me anymore, but then days later he calls me saying he wants to hangout again. That's what is confusing me.

[Junlian]

your blowing things up out of proportion. there must be something you did. if you feel that you didn't do anything then its no harm in breaking up and seeing each other again as a friend. though you might not feel the same way. dont you say things you dont mean and turn around and change your mind? he's human right? ask him what he want to hang out for. his answer determines the change to go on and see what he wants or you just answer NO!

[Tallblondie]

I asked him why he dumped me and he said it is because I am inexperienced...

[Junlian]

wooow! thats bullshit. Thats some nerve pulling out of his ass. i may not know your age but I'd definitely take any girl (or you) out no matter the experien as long as we have great communication and were happy. im cool with it. Now im flaring up about that. I'd be pissed. Wait you are. anywho. I'd forgive is dumb decision but i will not want to get too close to him again. Hanging out is last thing im doing with him (if i were you) waste of time.

[Tallblondie]

Yeah he dumped me after he gave me my first kiss... I'm in my early 20's

[Junlian]

He is one confuse f**k up. Just keep it moving. you might have feelings for him. or might not but he's a waste of time after hearing all of this. being in your "early 20's" is sweet cause you lean early before its too late. I hope the best of luck and what ever. Need some one to talk to. you can message me. if you want. I just hate it when people waste other people time knowing they got other plans and make bullshit excuse to leave a relationship.

[Tallblondie]

I agree he is confused. Thanks :)

[Junlian]

your welcome, any time miss. I may check on you some time cause i feel you got the bad end of the stick ( im not a stalker) I just feel that you deserve a whole hell of a lot better.

[Dude6327]

Commitment issues, cold feet, insecurity, etc... It's a scary thought liking someone but being unable to give your self to them because you are afraid of losing them.

[Tallblondie]

Do you keep girls around that you are attracted to for later- if you choose to date them later but not now?

[Dude6327]

Only if there is a connection otherwise no. I don't like being strung along and I refuse to do it to seome else.

[Anonymous]

why does he want to hang out. Sounds like confusion to me girl

[Tallblondie]

Thanks lol. Trying to figure it out! Guys are confusing.

[Keyspirits]

Keeping u as a last resort or for friends with benefits

[Tallblondie]

I don't do friends with benefits or any of that crap and he knows that so I counted that out.

[Keyspirits]

I mean it as sumone he could rely on ;P
Or maybe sumone he can get attention from if all else fail..

[Tallblondie]

He dumped me because I am too inexperienced ( he gave me my very 1st kiss) so I am thinking he just wants to have his fun and hook-up, since I won't do that... But I don't know why he is crawling back now...

[Keyspirits]

Yas it is hook ups as well and like i sais, he kept u for dat erason if all else fail. Meaning the other gurl who he's seeing beside u might have dump his azz off or sumthing. Otherwise he wouldn't dump u for no reason but the inexperience thing juz seem like an excuse tbh.

[Tallblondie]

Yeah... He unfortunately dumped me the day after he gave me my 1st kiss :( ... So I have no clue what his deal his. When I asked him he said I am too inexperienced and that is not what he is looking for. I was kind of dumbfounded.

[Keyspirits]

Noo thats a BIC phat lie used as an excuse.. if ur inexperienced, why is he trying to get back with u again? I know guys lied and trick the cuties this way into getting back with them. please dont, we men sweet talk and lied and trick them into being with us. Dont go blindfolded and fall for him again. Dnt get with sumone who dumped u alrdy and he will again when he sees sumone more attractive than u. Just dont get with him.. for ur overall health.

[Tallblondie]

Exactly that is why I am confused. Why is he trying to hangout with me again if I am so inexperienced for him.

[Keyspirits]

The "inexperienced" is juz a lie and an excuse to brk up with u for the 100th time -_-
he's trying to deceived u with all possible arguments that he can come up with. Dont be silly to fall for it >.>

[Tallblondie]

I agree it is a lie. I just wish I knew the truth.

[Keyspirits]

Well im a buy so these are the possible outcome. He could be seeing other gurls and dump u for her but i guess it didn't work out sumhow so he came crawling back to u. U dont understand the brain of a man unless ur one urself. Believe me or not is up to u. U also see situations like this happened in movies as well.

[dudeman]

He wants to be you're friend but doesn't want to be your bf

[Tallblondie]

There is no point in being friends. Sorry but 2 hot people can't be friends.

[dudeman]

Maybe that's why he doesn't want to date u. U sound bimboish maybe cool to chill with but no mas.

[Tallblondie]

Not at all. He dumped me because I am too inexperienced (he gave me my very 1st kiss), but now is asking to hangout with me again.

[dudeman]

I want bimboish in the dumb bitch sort of way. Lol two hot people can't be friends who says shut like that. Dumb broads lol.

[Tallblondie]

Okay.

[CommieDearest]

Just say no.

[Anonymous]

he probably just wants you for sex only

[Anonymous]

He wants the sex without the commitment