What should I do? Why do guys do this?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend had a mocospace (like MySpace for those that don't know what that is) but he deleted it cause he never got on no more. Yesterday I had this feeling to look at his cousins mocospace and see if he had made a new mocospace. Well I looked at his friends and there was my boyfriends new profile, I don't know why he thought he could hide this from me. Some girl hacked his profile and wrote a bunch of stuff but she did call him her friend,nothing more, this is the same girl he has text around me but he says they are just friends which I believe. && I know I can't get mad at him for having girl friends that are just friends even though I'm jealous. I figure he hasn't told me about his profile cause he don't want me seeing everything and he don't want me leaving comments that let other girls know he has a girlfriend. So am I right? What should I do? Why does he make another profile? Does it mean he plans on cheating?

[Anonymous]

Maybe he didn't think to tell you he made another mocospace profile. Or maybe he's hiding something. If he doesn't want you seeing everything (? an online profile isn't everything) and doesn't want you leaving comments to let other girls know he has a girl, that is a problem. If you have your suspicions, don't just push them under the rug, there's a reason why you have them. For now just watch and wait. If you want, make a mocospace of your own but don't put your pic up and see if he acts like a cheater.

[Asker]

Lol that's what I've already done. But I plan on telling him when I see him, I'm just waiting for him to accept the fake profile I made up so I can see everything on his profile, cause its private.

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you tell him before he accepts the fake profile he may get suspicious. You need to get your investigative skills on right now. Pretend you have no idea about the mocospace profile. If he hasn't done anything wrong then bring it up casually, but if he is doing something wrong then confront him like GOTCHA

[Asker]

Well I just checked and he accepted it. I'll see what happens from there but I'm definately not going 2 go 2 long pretending I don't know. That just makes me go crazy.

[alcheer2002]

hmmm that is kinda weird I think you should just text or call him and be like hey my friend said you had a *new mocospace is that true? and see what he says or you will just assume the worst!

[ArtistBboy]

1. Social Networking destroys relationships long-term

2. How would some random girl know how to hack? Its not easy. She probably got the password from him.

3. You are treating the situation the most maturely, but sometimes that doesn't work for a benefit

4. If you didn't tell him you found the "Mocospace" then keep it a secret- he probably will flip if you were "chasing him down"

Best regards,

ArtistBBoy

[Asker]

I know the girl got his password,, that's just what they say like she said "here hackin his page let me tell you about him" stuff like that. I wasn't chasing him, his cousin is one of my friends on there and I just looked at his friends and right away seen him. Thanks for the help :)

[ArtistBboy]

You are welcome =)