Do I drop her off, walk her to the door?

[Anonymous]

I recently asked a question about proper etiquette for a first sort of date and plan on going to the door, opening the car door for her, opening the door at the place for her and all that nice stuff. However I'm unsure of how to handle the end of the date, when I take her back to her house. Do I drop her off, walk her to the door? Not really sure what to do here :-\

[RFRFRF]

A gentleman always walks her to the door. Open the car door is good, it shows strength and that you're a good man. Well give her a hug and if she holds on tight then you know you can back up slowly and move half way in look her deeply in the eyes then kiss. Not a total make out tho. You gotta kinda fell the situation, if you guys hit it off then you could be making out at this point. Good?

[Hunterboyz]

I would recommend having a very good conversation on the way to drop her off.

While still in the car say hold on.

have a pass for the 2nd date as a coupon

open her door and help her out of the vehicle.

give her the coupons.

continue to the door with plans of a 2nd date as the topic.

Give her a hug like you want her close, and say goodnight as she closes the door.



Sincerely,

A Loving Black Man

[Anonymous]

I think that you should just be yourself. I know that first dates are always a little scary and you want to impress that person, but we've all been in relationships and know how much it sucks when that person gets comfortable and then decides to be themselves. If you always open doors then go for it that's awesome!

And as far as the end of the date, you should first see how well the date goes. You don't want to cause an uncomfortable goodbye. Makes the next date feel weird.

Good luck to you