What do I say to her before I walk her to the door after a date?

[guyintherye]

The reason I ask this is because my last date with the girl, I drove her home, pulled into her driveway, and basically just said bye and we said we'll hang out again. Then she said thanks for everything and exited the car and went into the house.

On our date, our connection was awesome, lots of laughs and fun. I think I could have easily gotten a hug or a kiss goodbye at the end of the date. But in the car its awkward to go in for a hug...

Do you think I should have walked her to the door? Would it have been easier to go in for a hug at the door? I kind of think I should have...But the problem is, how do you tell the girl that your going to walk her to the door without making it awkward...I'm afraid if I say "I'll walk you to the door" the girl might say "its OK, I'm good" or "haha why". What's a good thing to say in order to walk her to the door or before walking her to the door?

PS, this is not a first date, we've hung out a few times and I've known her for a while, and I'm getting hints that we like each other.

And if it helps, I'm 22

[cali_katie]

My boyfriend always walks me to the door. On the first date he said "I'll walk you to the door" or maybe he just got out of the car and did it. I don't really remember. But once he did walk me to the door, I thought it was nice to give him a hug and kiss. Then on our other dates, now he just walks me to the door all the time. I can't think of a reason why a girl would say no to him walking her to the door, or even ask why.

[x0sweetnicole0x]

park not in the driveway. I would like you to walk me to the door so I feel somewhat protected. or you could easily say do you want to go for a quick walk if she asks why be straight up with her. I know I ALWAYS want the guy to make the first move and he often doesn't. Just lean in and kiss her or hold hands in the car it may sound corny but corny is good. I hope this helps at all.

[el3ctric]

Just say I'll come out and give you a proper hug!Or just get out of the car and go around and give her a hug and then lean in for a kiss!

[guyintherye]

But lets say I don't even go for the hug in the car...at this point I can't say "proper hug" because I haven't even went for the hug yet.

what do I say in order to GET OUT of the car without making her feel weird lol

[el3ctric]

Well if you're going to be dropping her off at her house,then as she gets out of the car,you get out too and you could go up to her and say you had a nice night and then hug her.

[el3ctric]

I've had a guy drive me home and then as I've got out of the car,he got out of the car too and then has just come around and given me a hug..I didn't think anything of it,I was glad he did lol

[guyintherye]

get out without saying "ill walk you to your door" eh?

basically just get out as she gets out?

i don't know. I kind of feel like I need to say something before I physically get out. like tell her that I'm going to walk her to the door.

[el3ctric]

Well if you feel the need to say that then say Can I walk you to do the door?

[guyintherye]

Awesome, I'll do that next time.

now I feel like a d!ck for not doing anything lol

do you think if I did it on the next date, she would be thinking "wait, he didn't do this last time, so why is he doing it now"

[el3ctric]

If she's been on a few dates with you and shows interests in you,then I doubt she is going to be thinking that,she's probably waiting for you to kiss her!

[el3ctric]

Or you could say,ahhh I need to stretch,then get out of the car..stretch..and go up to her for a hug goodbye,if you don't want to say can I walk you to the door haha

[guyintherye]

haha awesome. thanks for the input.

If I think of anything else to ask about this, ill post again lol

[el3ctric]

no worries,well there's a few options there haha

[Anonymous]

Well if you really like her then walk her to the door, just saying buy in the car is not a good sign like you need to make a quick getaway busy got better things to do etc... and if she really liked you she would have drawn it out more stayed in the car etc..

[guyintherye]

Yah, she was kinda moving slow to get out...

she wasn't really in a rush to leave...so next time ill walked her to the door for sure

[moaterboat]

Of course you should walk her to the door! Don't even say anything about it. Just treat it like the only sensible way for the date to end (because it is). You park. You get out. You walk with her to the door. It really is that simple.

[flower1000]

yes she likes you she's just nervious round you the more you take her out it will come naturaly