So we broke up 2 months ago we hooked up a couple times but we haven't seen each other in almost a month. I really care about him and miss him like crazy. It's been 8 days of no contact and before tab he kinda would ignore me. I'm lost and stuck it was a4 year relationship and I think he's hooking up with other people as well. How can I get him back? Should I keep the no contact up?
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Just because two people Break up doesn't mean they can't and don't Make up and that it's Good-bye, my love forever. And with an "EX" who still Marks an X in your own softie spot here, dear, there is usually motive in mind when it comes time When... We hooked up a couple of times but we haven't seen each other in almost a month...
This is because he is Not Ready nor Raring to be hooked at the hip with you as two birds of a feather, who used to stick together. He at first thought it comfy with this so-called Friends with benefits factor, that he may have considered doing but now, it seems, he has moved on And... He's hooking up with other people as well.
It's true that you both Do have history that you have shared together. And I feel for now, anyways, he is taking his time, taking this space for himself, to be free and fly the nest with other chicks.
However, he really can't be trusted because even if he would come flapping back tomorrow, you never can tell if it would be a full circle pattern, where he does it again and Everything goes south once more.
Leave well enough alone right now and move on and focus on you. Best with someone like this who feels like this, to be friends, if you can handle it or just... Fly off yourself to the Call of the Wild and find someone else who is much more deserving out there.
Good luck. xx1