Why does my boyfriend ask my opinion if I want to break up with him?

[Anonymous]

when it was our anniversary. we were talking about things and he asked me if should break up and find other people to date. I cried and could not leave my boyfriend after left his house, I was wait for a bus so I told him that I need you. should I do if he ask me again

[Snows]

I think is best to put him in the spot and tell him to be honest with his intentions for asking that. Guys don't do things like this for no reason. When a dude those this kind of thing he has something planned out for each of your answers. I can say cause when I wanted to see if my ex had still had feelings for me before I left her I wanted to hear strait out of her mouth if she thought we needed to see other people. Now id also prepare for the worse. Sweety I really don't like seeing relationships end or hearing about it so I'm cheering for you to work things out. But reality is reality and you might have to face the fact that he might have lost some interest in your current relationship. All I say is give some thought to it by yourself, and gather the strength to endure. Get the info strait from the source and aim for the better, but prepare for the worst. Best of wishes to you.

[santia90]

because he wants to break up with you...wanting to "see other people" is code for "I want to see if I could get with this other girl I've been flirting with." Guys hate breaking up, like everything else they would rather have someone else do it for them...

I see you have feelings for him...unfortunately I don't think those feelings are reciprocated. Be prepared to move on is all I can say.

[Anonymous]

well I went through that with an ex he was over my house and we talked and he asked if we should break up and I thought nothing of it til 2 months later I found out he was with another girl. so I do believe that he does want to see other people and explore his options if he brings that up to you again ask him questions of the subject.

[Asker]

We are still together

[girlseekingadvice]

next time he asks if you think you should break up tell him no then ask him why he keeps asking you that and if he wants you to break up with him