Hi so my boyfriend and I were talking about how love is a bit complicated as on one hand you want your partner to have their own space and freedom but on the other hand you care about them and are attached to them. My boyfriend asked me if we broke up because he wants freedom, i would be fine with it and won’t feel pain or feel attached because I said I’m happy as long as he’s happy. I said I’d be a bit attached because we dated and I care about him a lot but maybe over time I’ll let him go. he said okay and that he supports whatever I decide. Now he’s not responding like he usually does and I think he’s upset but I don’t know why. I still love him so much and care a lot for him and I only said I’d let him go because he’s told me in the past how much he values freedom and I wanted to respect that. I think he’s upset now because he’s giving me one word responses which is really out of character, what should I do? I feel terrible and I feel like I’m at fault here but I don’t know. I don’t wanna lose him but I don’t know what to do.
I think my boyfriends upset with me but I don’t know why, but I think he wants to break up?
