Why can't I stop cheating on my husband?

[bbyblbeyes69]

Iv cheated on my husband more times then I can remember with all of his friends he knows about 2 of them and the others he doesn't no about for some reason I can't stop everyday time I have sex with him all I can think about are other men I can't even finish unless I think of other people he kinda makes me feel sick I can't kiss him or anything. He doesn't want to get divorced because we have a kid together and he thinks that things will get better. But I just can't stop his friend lives with us and ever second we get alone we have sex. It doesn't matter if it a man or a women I just have to have sex. With some one who isn't my husband what should I do? /

[wildd]

Oh wow. Well, if you can't stop having sex with other men/women. I think you should just tell your husband face to face that nothing is working out for you. In reality, he's the one facing the pain for the fact that his wife is cheating on him. I think it would be best for you to sit down with him, explain exactly what you have said here (that you don't feel anything for him) and let him know that in your belief. Things will not get better. Other then that, its good for both of you to live apart. As far as your child goes, I am pretty sure if you and your husband can't get along now. Things can't be all that simple for your child now either ( I'm assuming. I might be wrong. Maybe your kid is really happy). But the point here is, if you feel nothing for him you might as well divorce him rather then breaking his heart every time by cheating on him.

If you don't want to get a divorce either. I think you should talk to him about his friends "living-in-the-house" situation. Maybe if you want things to get better. The "friend" should not be living with you guys in the first place.

Goodluck.

[Superstrength79]

I agree. Friends should never live in a married household on a permanent basis. Pandora's Box anyone?

[kiem-gg]

I think that if you have gotten to the point where you don't even care if its a man or a woman or if they are friends of your husband but you have got to have sex, then you are addicted to sex and it's actually a real disease you should be getting treatment for.

In addition, I think you don't love your husband so it would be better if you just divorced him.

[roadkingp]

I think you have gone nuts. Build a family not your sexual resume. You and your husband are not interested in a family. And your child is suffering. For the sake of the child growing up in a good environment, just get out of there and start living in a civilized manner. I became angry at the way you are living and I my response is harsh but I think you deserve more.

[good-looking-geek]

Holy shit! Your husband has his male friend living in the same house as him and his wife! He deserves to get cheated on for being so f***ing stupid! Are you sure the kid is your husband's and not one of your misteress's?

[Thanatos]

Divorce, it most likely won't get better, and it will be better for the kid in the long run if you get divorced earlier.

[jacquesvol]

What a stupid thing he did there...

It sounds like your husband doesn't care about you any more. Do you care about your husband? Or is it about morality and reputation you care?

[Anonymous]

The most useful thing I can think of is, instead of running to your husbands friend when you get the urge to cheat, call me! :) I have the exact same problem you have.