Why do I want my husband to cheat on me?

[Anonymous]

I always false accuse him of cheating on me with his co worker. He's told numerous times he would never do that. But with my anxiety mixed in he's better off cheating so I can get over my anxiety.

[LiamJHayden]

Is it anxiety or do you secretly hope he cheats so you have an excuse to end it?

[Asker]

I guess both.

[Yannae]

so you can get over your anxiety.

[AI Opinion]

Exploring the mind’s desire for chaos can be a wild ride! 🤔 Perhaps your anxiety thrives on what-ifs. Lovebombing your husband with baseless accusations can be a red flag for both of you. Instead of hoping for a drama-worthy cheating scandal, open communication could be your best script to follow. Strengthen trust and seek a peaceful storyline! ❤️📚

[Finchie40]

Because you need an excuse to leave him, because you don’t want to look like the bad guy , when sadly you are the bad one. You are just trying to play a victim when really you are the selfish one , that only cares about yourself. If you are clearly unhappy in your relationship you are best to just end it with him and go your separate ways so he can move on and find himself a girl that wants to be by his side. Instead of stinging him along for your own selfish benefit

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

Is it possible that you secretly want to leave him, and if he cheated on you, that would give you an excuse to do it?

Or possibly this is a weird sexual kink you have, being cheated on?

Or possibly you have so much anxiety about this that if you caught him cheating it would be a relief, because you wouldn't have to wonder anymore.

Those are the only reasons I can think of.

Hope this helps.

[PeachyPie93]

Maybe try anxiety pills or counselling because you sound like a horrible partner at the moment. And if you don't like the guy leave him, like wtf?

[Abbycado]

Wow, what a great wife you are falsely accusing your husband because of your own insecurities. Smh.

[Finchie40]

This is what selfish people do , it’s not anxiety , it’s just an excuse for their selfish behavior , because they want to act like they are this victim , instead of accepting the fact that they are the selfish POS person that can’t take accountability for their own selfish actions and behavior , My ex pulled this shit with me , by trying to act like she was this innocent person , when really she was the selfish POS raging bitch behind closed doors , but in front of other people , she acted like she was sweet and innocent person to all her friends she made it seem like I was this horrible person because she couldn’t admit she was wrong whatsoever. The things she would do wasn’t normal behavior , Anytime I tried talking to her and trying to get the truth from her , she acted like I didn’t know what I was talking about , like how dare you question me , I busted her lying about things and when I confronted her on it with solid proof , she still couldn’t admit she was wrong. and then she would say she had anxiety and made excuses for her behavior I eventually threw in the towel on her crazy ass , and said good luck to you , Good luck finding a guy that will tolerate your selfish behavior and lies. The second I ended it with her she started begging for me back and apologizing because she knew nobody else would want her sorry ass. I didn’t give into her for a long time , cuz I was over her shit. But stupid me eventually gave her another chance thinking things would be different , I kick myself on the as for that one. But never again

[Abbycado]

@Finchie40 well, the asker clearly has mental issues and should NOT be married. Ffs, I cherish my boyfriend. I would die if he slept with another girl.

[Finchie40]

Yes anyone that actually has a heart would , but selfish people don’t give a shit

[Oldschool1981]

I kinda like it if the women I'm with cheat on me. If anything, I find it to be a turn on.

[bananathunder]

you want to be a cuck?

[Asker]

Not me. I want him to be unfaithful. So I can get over my anxiety.

[bananathunder]

I don't think that's how it works... Maybe work on your trust to get over your anxiety?

[jahaims]

You need therapy