I want to give my friend advice, but honestly I think they should see a marriage counselor. It seems like since her husband is emotionally distant, she's stopped trying. Obviously, she won't listen and keeps slipping down a short rope. She's already at the point of cheating, but is it the point of no return?
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A skilled divorce lawyer can probably argue no and win and obviously it's not the same thing as sucking said dick but if I found that on the phone of said wife along with incriminating texts/emails while we are supposed to be in a closed marriage I'm probably going to be pissed and full of wtf? Maybe enough to go to some dating site and find someone to trade naked pics with and see how much she liked/disliked it. If it's an open marriage then there's nothing to be pissed about and I'd just assume it was a meaningless side order to kill the monotony.
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Sooo the dick pic is where you start worrying, not that she's showing her boobs to someone else while she's married? That she flirted to te point he compliments her body and sends photos? THAT is cheating on its own.
I'd say she needs to tell her husband, he deserves better or he needs to shape up and realise he's not treating his wife properly either. They're both doing things wrong right now. So yes, counselling or divorce. The fact she'd even say "well, if i get a divorce..." shows she isn't even that invested.
She's cheating though.